I'm sorry this is long, but please listen and tell me what I should do. I'm really depressed a lot over this. So 2 months ago I got in contact with an old guy friend I knew since middle school. He moved freshman year and we're both juniors now. We had a big conection with each other and he would always call me all the time and message me, Then he moved back to our town again in N.Y. (he lived in N.J) He started acting funny to me like he would cut the messages and calls or say ';i forgot'; or ';I'm busy.'; or ';I can't hangout '; when he was so interested in seeing me when he moved down here. Sunday night he deleted me off his myspace (I was #1) and he deleted my friends. I called him up and he said he's making a facebook to keep in touch with family and delete his myspace cause ';there was too much drama on there'; yeah, and he was in a hurry to help his dad move stuff (since they're moving and had a deadline to be out of the house) but he was in a rush and my gut feeling felt like maybe he was talking to her on the phone. so my friend checks out his site and yeah he had status updates he was, but now there was 2 girls on 2 and 3 on his top, when he had his best guy friends. I found out it was they girls was best friends with each other and this one girl he left a comment on her profile pic ';your so beautiful'; I was pissed off cause idk if I was just lead on and she her status says she hanged out with him a few times. Okay so I got down to the bottom of this and decided to call him up and ask him about it. He got upset with me and cursed me out and was like ';this is bullshit, she's only a friend and only 14. wtf I don't need drama and I have better things to waste my time on for the military. I don't like anyone anymore I don't need this getting in the military'; so he hung up on me and then messaged me repeating the same thing but this time saying ';don't call me or message me no more'; I messaged and he was like '; I can't be with anyone who asks too many questions, give me time to think'; and stopped messaging. I was on the phone with his best friend and he told me he was telling the truth and the girl is nothing to him and young and that he hates it when people ask him too many questions cause it upsets him. I don't know what to do and I really like him a lot and he seem so perfect to me. He said he'd call me in a few days to figure things out, so do I give him space for how long? Is the conection over between us now I spoke my mind? Are we gonna be okay? I can't stop crying over this and I feel so horrible its over. :(I'm really hurting a lot over this guy. please help? me :[?
He sounds like he likes you and he said he wanted to call you in a few days, so i think you should wait for him to contact you and tell him when he does that you like him and you want to know what he is honestly thinking and feeling towards you. If his complaint is that you ask ';too many questions'; then start asking specific short ones like that. Haha good luck and be patient! He'll come around answer mine please!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I'm really hurting a lot over this guy. please help? me :[?
It sounds like he has a lot on his mind and things are pulling him in every direction. He is probably getting a lot of pressure from his dad to decide what he's going to do after HS. He is internalizing all of this stress with people constantly asking him questions and the myspace thing did probably have a lot of drama like who likes who or other rumors that he couldn't take it anymore. That's why he took it down because he can't deal with all of the drama. I'm not trying to make you cry but here you are asking what's he thinking and doing and accusing him of having a relationship with a girl. He tells you the truth but you don't believe him and you keep asking him questions. Questions that he doesn't think are priority at the time. A time when he needs someone to understand him and help him get through this. Your so involved with your feelings that you have disregarded his feelings. That's why he cussed you out because he has reached his boiling point. Yes he still likes you, but if I were you I wouldn't be following him around or meeting with him that you need to talk because it will only piss him off. Just wait about a week and if you see him just smile and him or say hello. If he responds that will prove that he still likes you but do not try to start a conversation with him, he is still cooling off. Let him come to you. If he hasn't come to you in a week, then if you see him again, ask him if there is anything you can do to help him. I know its hard right now, but he needs some time for himself.
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