What should I do about this guy? Ten Points for best answer!!?

I'm sorry this is long, but please listen and tell me what I should do. I'm really depressed a lot over this. So 2 months ago I got in contact with an old guy friend I knew since middle school. He moved freshman year and we're both juniors now. We had a big conection with each other and he would always call me all the time and message me, Then he moved back to our town again in N.Y. (he lived in N.J) He started acting funny to me like he would cut the messages and calls or say ';i forgot'; or ';I'm busy.'; or ';I can't hangout '; when he was so interested in seeing me when he moved down here. Sunday night he deleted me off his myspace (I was #1) and he deleted my friends. I called him up and he said he's making a facebook to keep in touch with family and delete his myspace cause ';there was too much drama on there'; yeah, and he was in a hurry to help his dad move stuff (since they're moving and had a deadline to be out of the house) but he was in a rush and my gut feeling felt like maybe he was talking to her on the phone. so my friend checks out his site and yeah he had status updates he was, but now there was 2 girls on 2 and 3 on his top, when he had his best guy friends. I found out it was they girls was best friends with each other and this one girl he left a comment on her profile pic ';your so beautiful'; I was pissed off cause idk if I was just lead on and she her status says she hanged out with him a few times. Okay so I got down to the bottom of this and decided to call him up and ask him about it. He got upset with me and cursed me out and was like ';this is bullshit, she's only a friend and only 14. wtf I don't need drama and I have better things to waste my time on for the military. I don't like anyone anymore I don't need this getting in the military'; so he hung up on me and then messaged me repeating the same thing but this time saying ';don't call me or message me no more'; I messaged and he was like '; I can't be with anyone who asks too many questions, give me time to think'; and stopped messaging. I was on the phone with his best friend and he told me he was telling the truth and the girl is nothing to him and young and that he hates it when people ask him too many questions cause it upsets him. I don't know what to do and I really like him a lot and he seem so perfect to me. He said he'd call me in a few days to figure things out, so do I give him space for how long? Is the conection over between us now I spoke my mind? Are we gonna be okay? I can't stop crying over this and I feel so horrible its over. :( thank you if you help me solve this question too.What should I do about this guy? Ten Points for best answer!!?
Hon, I'm sorry you're hurting. Broken hearts hurt... but remember they also heal and fall in love again (and nothing is better in this world than falling in love!). My advice for you is to back off from this guy completely. Have some respect for yourself. He had no right to curse you out, and you shouldn't remain friends with someone who treats you like that anyway. Unfortunately, it's going to take time for you to feel ok again. It's important that you keep busy in the coming days. Focus on school (then you'll get to go to a great college where there will be lots of great guys!), hang with your friends, eat ice cream, watch movies, get a part-time job or volunteer. Do things that are outside of your regular routine (challenge the comfort zone). You are going to be ok! So hang in there, and hugs!!What should I do about this guy? Ten Points for best answer!!?
Well, it sounds like you really like this boy. If he loves you and you love him, one little fight should not really matter. Give him space for about a week then call him and try and work things out. Start out by being friends again and hanging out, things like that. I hope I helped and I hope you can become close friends again :)
okay here is what you do avoid contact with him when he is ready to talk he will talk to you dont send him messages anything!!! it will just annoy him trust me try to like another guy and not be to attached to him guys hate girls who are too attached dont go stalking him on myspace or facbook cause it will make you want to cantact him nore take him off of your top and just play it sool for awhile he will come to you soon if he truley likes you good luck and i if he doesnt work out there are plenty other fishys in the sea youll find the right guy when the time is right
Its gauna be okat girl, I had the same thing happen to me. If he calls you tell him to go and jump off a dock; you are to good for him!
this is sorta ur fault. thats where the saying ';you dont know what you have til its gone'; comes from. take advantage of ur opportunities b/c u dont know if you will ever get that chance again. with that said i would say move on and try to learn from the experience. he sounds like hes pissed and really isnt being open to working things out. just try not to repeat the same mistake with the next guy u like
Don't let him rent any more space in your head; you barely cross his mind. He is probably calling you a stalker. Don't give him anymore ammunition for that.


Redirect your attention towards a guy that likes you back. Except, don't be so obsessed the next time. Relax and let things happen naturally; you can't force someone to like you, but you can push them away.


God bless.
Read your own words like you are reading someone else's message. He deleted you from facebook, he told you that you're too much drama, he has better ways to waste his time, he breaks off conversations with lame excuses, he told you not to call or message him. What aren't you getting? OMG! What more does this guy have to do to keep you from stalking him? He probably expects to see a boiling bunny next. Leave the guy alone. I'm sorry you feel so bad, really, but what's over? I missed the part that you really had anything to begin with. Find some guy who wants to be with you. Good luck.
It sounds like he has a lot on his mind and things are pulling him in every direction. He is probably getting a lot of pressure from his dad to decide what he's going to do after HS. He is internalizing all of this stress with people constantly asking him questions and the myspace thing did probably have a lot of drama like who likes who or other rumors that he couldn't take it anymore. That's why he took it down because he can't deal with all of the drama. I'm not trying to make you cry but here you are asking what's he thinking and doing and accusing him of having a relationship with a girl. He tells you the truth but you don't believe him and you keep asking him questions. Questions that he doesn't think are priority at the time. A time when he needs someone to understand him and help him get through this. Your so involved with your feelings that you have disregarded his feelings. That's why he cussed you out because he has reached his boiling point. Yes he still likes you, but if I were you I wouldn't be following him around or meeting with him that you need to talk because it will only piss him off. Just wait about a week and if you see him just smile and him or say hello. If he responds that will prove that he still likes you but do not try to start a conversation with him, he is still cooling off. Let him come to you. If he hasn't come to you in a week, then if you see him again, ask him if there is anything you can do to help him. I know its hard right now, but he needs some time for himself.