REPOST!!! PLEASE HELP! I am so sad and confused! I need your comments! Best answer 10 points!?

My ex and I were together for 6 months before we had a huge fight and broke up. I was really sad, felt horrible, etc. However, we still kept in contact and we have gotten along since.



We talked on the phone, and he recently broke the news to me that he was visiting his ex in India and that he was staying for ten days. He said he rented a room during those days, so he's not staying with her (which I believe because he has always been honest about sex, his girlfriends, etc), but that he was going to meet up with her during the day, and it was more for closure. He said he even contemplated not going because he knows that she is traveling with this guy and that they are together f******, so he expects nothing to happen. Plus, he also said that she has been ignoring him lately, and he doesn't even care about seeing her and that he is just ready to go there and take pictures and have fun no matter what. Either way, he said that this is it, and that there is no other problems. She won't move, he won't move. He said he doesn't love her and he said that she said she doesn't love him. He said it simply won't work out between them, so I have nothing to worry about.



Also to point out, he is coming to visit me about a week after he gets back. That he is beyond excited to see me (because we haven't seen each other in months), and he can't wait to spend time with me and look forward to seeing where we will end up as. He said he has no expectations, but he wants to see how we end up.



I am so confused. I don't want him to see this girl, but I know he will. I know deep down everything is okay, but in my mind, I am scared because if there is anything that EVERYBODY knows is that anything can happen. Stuff comes up, things change, etc. He has always been honest with me, and I appreciate that so much about him. When we were together, if I asked him if a girl was prettier than me, he would say yes. He has just always been bluntly honest. So I know that this is not an issue. And another bit of information is that yes, we are broken up. I know this, but that doesn't mean that this doesn't bother me. And I also know that he is going to come down and see me. I keep asking him, and he kept saying yes. He is beyond excited to hug, see, spend time with me. So I have that going for me right? And he said that he was open to anything that happens between us. Plus, he also said he doesn't even talk to this girl much. He said he talks to me more than anyone else, so I have that going no?



Just please help. I know I may be overthinking this, but it's so much to think about. He said he loves me, and I know he wouldn't say it if he didn't mean it.



Thank you SO much. I will give the best answer 10 points.

22 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.

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He was faithful! I meant to say that he was honest about all of his ex's.

9 minutes ago



He also said this is closure between the both of them, which is a good sign right because at least he is open to the idea of us being a couple again.

8 minutes ago



He said he will keep in contact with email and IM'ing because it would be expensive for us to both make calls since neither of us are in the states. I am in the Caribbean and he will be in India.REPOST!!! PLEASE HELP! I am so sad and confused! I need your comments! Best answer 10 points!?
Really don't see what it is you want from us... assurance that he won't all of a sudden change his mind after seeing her? How are we to know that? The only thing I can say is that he's pretty much telling you that he wants to get back together -- but that doesn't mean that he's not a player (no matter what you say about his being honest). Sorry, but I don't think you'll be getting much help from random strangers on the internets.REPOST!!! PLEASE HELP! I am so sad and confused! I need your comments! Best answer 10 points!?
This is way to long. That's why no one is helping. Good luck and cut this down to a few sentences. Good luck in what ever problem your having.
It is odd to go out of your way to visit someone for closure when there was no confusion in the first place. In any case, you have no choice but to accept it, focus on other things, don't ruminate, and enjoy your time to the utmost every day no matter what he's doing.
Your afraid they will fall in love with each other when they see each other, have sex and reconcile.

Take it one day at a time and do not hinge your entire purpose of living on this guy.
I'm sure everthing will be fine. Maybe send him emails to see how he is doing. And maybe you can even ask him about how it's going with her, but it depends on what type of guy he is.