Sex question. please dont read if offended by sex.?

okay, before i begin; please dont report this, im not trying to take the piss, i am being genuine and i want to know, but i cant exactly ask people about this cos its embarassing, and nobody knows each other on here.. also i have warned you not to read it if you dont want to, so please dont have a go at me, im not trying to be disgusting at all.



right, i have been with my lovely boyfriend for 4 months, i feel so lucky to have found him, seriously, hes so perfect, and we both love each other so much, he stayed round mine on thursday night and he was really in the mood for sex, but i felt really tired and a bit ill so i wasnt at all, he did a bit of foreplay and it was really nice, we did try and have sex but i just was too dry and not in the mood (sorry if TMI) anyway, hes had to work away this week, and he only comes home on weekends, hes going to be doing this for 6 weeks.



i want to have sex with him this weekend cos i really missed him, and i know he wants to have sex this weekend too.. i want it to be really nice for him tho, his favourite position is the girl on top, i dont mind doing it (hes the only person ive slept with btw) and ive only done it twice, but they werent really that great.. basically what im asking is, how can i be on top and do it quite well? lol, i just find its really tiring and hard to move up and down with your thighs.. do you go up and down on it, or backwards and forwards? thats what ive wanted to know lol, i wanna do other stuff like sort of move my hips around over .. it.. lol, but im just stuck on that.. really sorry if this has grossed you out!



im 17 and hes 19 if that helps

we both have no STDs and im on birth control pills so we dont use condoms. just extra info if you need it lol!

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leave your qs if you want :)Sex question. please dont read if offended by sex.?
1. I'm glad your on birth control pills. Just remember that you will need to use condoms if you ever have to take antibiotics since the antibiotics can/will mess with the pills ability to prevent pregnancy.



2. Everyone is different with what feels good and what movement it takes for that to happen. So for you to get the most out of sex, you need to communicate with your partner. You need to experiment and be patient. Also, don't worry all the time about what your partner wants. As a woman, you need to know what makes you feel good so take some alone time for yourself.



3. To truly be a responsible young adult; make sure to get yourself checked for STD's every 6 months. I know your partner may be faithful now but things can change. My husband was surprised when I told him that I go every 6 months. His argument was that we were married. My argument was that I was married (and cheated on) before him. Plus this is my insurance that I'm in a stable relationship. Should he ever be unfaithful (I doubt he would) at least he'll know that I'm checking myself so maybe he'll use a condom if he were to ever cheat.Sex question. please dont read if offended by sex.?
Ok you shouldn't be embarrased to ask this. It's really not that big of a deal. Anyway, the first thing to remember when being on top is to use your hips!! Grind in a circular motion, and move as if you're riding on top of a horse, up and down. Switch up your speed and have fun! Lean towards him while you're on top for more clitoral stimulation.
ok. nobody better report me either, lol but sometimes ur jst going to have to take the pain in your thigh muscles, but consider it as an excersice, becuase it sort of is, and you will be sore the next day. when you do get tired, just push your upper body front and back. if u can, go backwards while on him, bcuz they like that aswel. hopefully when u start slowing down he wil ';help you.'; like hold your waist and lift u up and down on him. and if not, most guys also like doggy style. i hope this helps(: