do you support illegal immigration I sure as **** don't,,, here is why....
This is for ALL AMERICANS out there
illegal immigrate is not from any selected nation but anyone who migrate with out approval from that selected Government. They could be criminals will to do harm to YOUR family, or Terrorists trying to get in the country to make another attack with may kill YOUR family, The government has laws on this for a reason. but congress fails to enforce them...
First let me show there side
they come over here for a better life for them and there family make there family money here cause our money is worth more then there currency. some don't even know English an how to read English and if they do, you can hardly understand them and in there rare case they do speak with out a accent there still harming Americas.
Now our side.
Ok now many of the US citizens i am speaking to where born here work many years to earn money to make damn sure there is food on the table for there family and pay bills and taxes so there is a house over there heads, some need two (2) jobs to do that,, my uncle once need three (3) but he did it and was proud he did cause his family got to eat and a place to sleep.
many of us only need one (1) job to get by maybe work over time every so often to make sure the kids have food are safe and have a good school to go to. But...
Just try to pretend this IS you and the situation is real.
You went to work to day your boss calls you in to his office tells you that your wage is to much for (Where every you work) to pay so where going to half to let you go.... Now your going home how do you tell you family you got Fired from your job and can only rely on you savings for a few weeks or months. The economy is bad so getting a new job will be vary hard to do. what do you do, move back in with your parents or other family member or friend, cut down on spending, use less water, power, go to that bathroom out side to reduce the sewage bill, ware lots of clothing in cold weather or open the windows if its hot, sell a few things, cash in you savings bonds, apply for unemployment?
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I would go out of my mind and age 20 years worrying if i was going to be able to feed my kids and keep the house over there head's.
And all of that could have been avoided if that person that took your job because he works for less then minimum wage was unable to take your job in the first place.
Don't tell me i am bias because I know i am on this subject and that IS a NON-bias FACT as to what happens i know this because my friends entire family lost there jobs and moved in with us of a year.
dont try and say anything sweet or try and turn the table on me with some fancy **** as why he/she has the right to come here and cause all that avoidable damage to a family who needs that job.
dont try and say that it only happen to my friends family cause it did not I assure you its less exclusive to just my friends family.
sure some stuff may be different maybe you have saved lost of money and can find a job before your money runs out but maybe you dont have any money in savings or maybe you dont even have a savings, your circumstances may differ but all that could have been avoided.
Im sure you would even help you enemy from such a thing, no one shood be with out a house, be unable to feed there kids and them self for any reason.
Now i ask you
Do you support illegal immigration
Or the removal of them all.How many people support illegal immigration, or the removal of them all.?
i don't support them at all. they are making things worse for us. they are taking our jobs because they are willing to work for less wages and they are over crowding our schools which is affecting our children education.How many people support illegal immigration, or the removal of them all.?
Deport them when they are found, and step up the finding process! No more freebies, no more anchor baby law, fine employers heavily etc. Stop the madness!
Removal of them all and prison for anyone that hires or houses them!They are war criminals and should be treated as such.
I don't support illegal immigration, but buck is right.
I wish we would just kill them all and their demon spawn rugrats.
Neither one.
I do support learning English (spelling, grammar etc.) before suggesting someone else learn it.
';First let me show there side';
';they come over here for a better life for them and there family make there family money here cause our money is worth more then there currency. some don't even know English an how to read English and if they do, you can hardly understand them and in there rare case they do speak with out a accent there still harming Americas.';
';They'; should be capitalized. ';there'; should be their, ';cause'; should be because, ';an'; should be and, it should not be ';you can hardly'; it should be ';one can hardly';, and ';in the (not there) rare case'; ';with out'; should be without, and I am not sure what ';Americas'; means.
So easy to criticize other people, it takes much more time and effort to see our own shortcomings..
';shood be'; ???? ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok you write down a novel for nothing because this is the reality
1.more than 22 million of illegal immigrants already live in USA
2.we deport 1% of illegal immigrants a year
3.The Federal refuse to enforced the immigration law
4.we already pay million of dollars to deport illegal immigrants
the only logic solution is to legalize the 22 million of illegal immigrants
and in the same time reinforce our borders surveillance in order to stop
those who try to cross our borders illegally..
PS for all those who believe we should just enforced the immigration law
they also should consider about the cost because it will be million of dollars
for the next 10 years
moral it will cost less to give to them the amnesty and make them pay the taxes
Sunday, December 11, 2011
My best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
We were friends since my freshman year in high school, now I'm almost 19. We called each other every night, planned to move out together as soon as I found a job and she turned 18, etc.
Last March we both got new boyfriends. Little did I know that our friendship would start to dissolve. She was over at our boyfriends apartment every day and night (our boyfriends are friends lol). She new that we weren't getting to see each other as much and said she felt bad. But she continued.
Our boyfriends stopped having their apartment together and moved back in with their parents temporarily over the summer (last year). We weren't texting very much anymore.
She started smoking weed all the time, and I needed to find a job - so it's not like I was going to do that.
By August, her 18th birthday approached and she talked to me about moving together but I said we shouldn't since she started smoking cigarettes and she wanted to smoke inside (when I don't smoke at all!). and I knew her boyfriend wanted to move in with her. They were glued to each other.
So in september I got lost and couldn't find a bus to get back home (she had her boyfriend pick me up - just him- she was at work) and we were talking and I asked how he was and he said he was getting ready to move the furniture and stuff into the apartment. And I was like ';oh what apartment?'; and he looked shocked and said that he and my ';best friend'; were moving in together in like a week! I didn't mind, I was just shocked because she didn't tell me anything! and when I texted her asking about it she said she wanted to tell me and was upset that her boyfriend accidentally told me.
Then a month later she starts talking to me asking if my tattoo hurt too much when I got it. I said it didn't hurt an insane amount but it definitely hurt. I said why are you getting one? and she said yes and I was like ';oh I want to come!'; she had been there when I got mine and I said (when we were still close) that I totally had to go with her for hers. She said ';in five minutes!'; I was like X_X! I couldn't believe it. I was like why didn't you tell me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and she just said she thought I would be too busy.
Then in December I gave her this neat thing that lights up and creates bubbles in water (kind of like a late housewarming gift) and we hugged (we never hug) and the next day I asked if she set it up yet and she said she was too busy. That's the last I've talked to her. So yes its been about a month and a half.
During the span of time of our dissolving friendship I went through a series of depressions that would sometimes last a couple days. I would burst into tears at a sudden thought of her, and it caused me a great deal of pain.
It was like waking up with your arm or leg amputated and you don't know why.
Do you have any helpful comments or stories?
I'm trying to purge her out of my life. That's why I saw her in the december of last year, to get rid of my baggage and not deal with it in the new year. It's like a goal to never see her AGAIN EVER.
Thanks for reading.My best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
well this may not happend to everyone but it has happended to alot of people , it happened to me too but the thing is you have to figue out what you wanna do with your life and not depend on how she treat you , thats the best i can tell you , i know you decided to shut her out of your life which is a good thing but dont let it bother you , you are here posting so it's still that you are still worry and think about her , just don't , just forget it , it will make you much happierMy best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
Something like that happened to me. Very different, but I did lose a friend, and I was very upset. And for a long time, too. My friend had a lot of troubles in her life and I was very, very, very young. She told me too many things I couldn't handle at that age. It made depressed. Really depressed. I slowly tried to inch myself away from her. I found out she was backstabbing me, and telling people secrets about me. I just cut myself off. When she invited me over I said no, because when I went over I would be sad. I made new friends. When I lost her it was hard but I got through it. I needed to be away from her. She was my first and last best friend. I miss having someone I can tell everything to but I do not miss her. She moved to a new school and eventually we could just say hello and make small talk.
Bahh. I guess my story isn't similar to yours but maybe it's comforting to know you aren't the only one who lost a friend, and kind of lost track of what was going on between each other.
Last March we both got new boyfriends. Little did I know that our friendship would start to dissolve. She was over at our boyfriends apartment every day and night (our boyfriends are friends lol). She new that we weren't getting to see each other as much and said she felt bad. But she continued.
Our boyfriends stopped having their apartment together and moved back in with their parents temporarily over the summer (last year). We weren't texting very much anymore.
She started smoking weed all the time, and I needed to find a job - so it's not like I was going to do that.
By August, her 18th birthday approached and she talked to me about moving together but I said we shouldn't since she started smoking cigarettes and she wanted to smoke inside (when I don't smoke at all!). and I knew her boyfriend wanted to move in with her. They were glued to each other.
So in september I got lost and couldn't find a bus to get back home (she had her boyfriend pick me up - just him- she was at work) and we were talking and I asked how he was and he said he was getting ready to move the furniture and stuff into the apartment. And I was like ';oh what apartment?'; and he looked shocked and said that he and my ';best friend'; were moving in together in like a week! I didn't mind, I was just shocked because she didn't tell me anything! and when I texted her asking about it she said she wanted to tell me and was upset that her boyfriend accidentally told me.
Then a month later she starts talking to me asking if my tattoo hurt too much when I got it. I said it didn't hurt an insane amount but it definitely hurt. I said why are you getting one? and she said yes and I was like ';oh I want to come!'; she had been there when I got mine and I said (when we were still close) that I totally had to go with her for hers. She said ';in five minutes!'; I was like X_X! I couldn't believe it. I was like why didn't you tell me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and she just said she thought I would be too busy.
Then in December I gave her this neat thing that lights up and creates bubbles in water (kind of like a late housewarming gift) and we hugged (we never hug) and the next day I asked if she set it up yet and she said she was too busy. That's the last I've talked to her. So yes its been about a month and a half.
During the span of time of our dissolving friendship I went through a series of depressions that would sometimes last a couple days. I would burst into tears at a sudden thought of her, and it caused me a great deal of pain.
It was like waking up with your arm or leg amputated and you don't know why.
Do you have any helpful comments or stories?
I'm trying to purge her out of my life. That's why I saw her in the december of last year, to get rid of my baggage and not deal with it in the new year. It's like a goal to never see her AGAIN EVER.
Thanks for reading.My best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
well this may not happend to everyone but it has happended to alot of people , it happened to me too but the thing is you have to figue out what you wanna do with your life and not depend on how she treat you , thats the best i can tell you , i know you decided to shut her out of your life which is a good thing but dont let it bother you , you are here posting so it's still that you are still worry and think about her , just don't , just forget it , it will make you much happierMy best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
Something like that happened to me. Very different, but I did lose a friend, and I was very upset. And for a long time, too. My friend had a lot of troubles in her life and I was very, very, very young. She told me too many things I couldn't handle at that age. It made depressed. Really depressed. I slowly tried to inch myself away from her. I found out she was backstabbing me, and telling people secrets about me. I just cut myself off. When she invited me over I said no, because when I went over I would be sad. I made new friends. When I lost her it was hard but I got through it. I needed to be away from her. She was my first and last best friend. I miss having someone I can tell everything to but I do not miss her. She moved to a new school and eventually we could just say hello and make small talk.
Bahh. I guess my story isn't similar to yours but maybe it's comforting to know you aren't the only one who lost a friend, and kind of lost track of what was going on between each other.
My best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
We were friends since my freshman year in high school, now I'm almost 19. We called each other every night, planned to move out together as soon as I found a job and she turned 18, etc.
Last March we both got new boyfriends. Little did I know that our friendship would start to dissolve. She was over at our boyfriends apartment every day and night (our boyfriends are friends lol). She new that we weren't getting to see each other as much and said she felt bad. But she continued.
Our boyfriends stopped having their apartment together and moved back in with their parents temporarily over the summer (last year). We weren't texting very much anymore.
She started smoking weed all the time, and I needed to find a job - so it's not like I was going to do that.
By August, her 18th birthday approached and she talked to me about moving together but I said we shouldn't since she started smoking cigarettes and she wanted to smoke inside (when I don't smoke at all!). and I knew her boyfriend wanted to move in with her. They were glued to each other.
So in september I got lost and couldn't find a bus to get back home (she had her boyfriend pick me up - just him- she was at work) and we were talking and I asked how he was and he said he was getting ready to move the furniture and stuff into the apartment. And I was like ';oh what apartment?'; and he looked shocked and said that he and my ';best friend'; were moving in together in like a week! I didn't mind, I was just shocked because she didn't tell me anything! and when I texted her asking about it she said she wanted to tell me and was upset that her boyfriend accidentally told me.
Then a month later she starts talking to me asking if my tattoo hurt too much when I got it. I said it didn't hurt an insane amount but it definitely hurt. I said why are you getting one? and she said yes and I was like ';oh I want to come!'; she had been there when I got mine and I said (when we were still close) that I totally had to go with her for hers. She said ';in five minutes!'; I was like X_X! I couldn't believe it. I was like why didn't you tell me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and she just said she thought I would be too busy.
Then in December I gave her this neat thing that lights up and creates bubbles in water (kind of like a late housewarming gift) and we hugged (we never hug) and the next day I asked if she set it up yet and she said she was too busy. That's the last I've talked to her. So yes its been about a month and a half.
During the span of time of our dissolving friendship I went through a series of depressions that would sometimes last a couple days. I would burst into tears at a sudden thought of her, and it caused me a great deal of pain.
It was like waking up with your arm or leg amputated and you don't know why.
Do you have any helpful comments or stories?
I'm trying to purge her out of my life. That's why I saw her in the december of last year, to get rid of my baggage and not deal with it in the new year.
Thanks for readingMy best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
It sounds like you two are just growing apart. Different interests, different life-paths. We don't always stay friends with our friends from High School. I had the same best friend from Kindergarten though High School graduation. After that we kept in touch a little bit, but I honestly haven't spoken to him in probably 3 or 4 years.
It can be frustrating or hurtful, but it's not inherently bad. You don't have to dislike her if your growing apart, just accept that that's the way things are sometimes.
If you REALLY want to remain close, verbalize this to her. Tell her how you feel in a kind and understanding way. Tell her that you recognize your drifting apart, and that if it were up to you that would not happen. The reality is that it may not be up to you, but if you approach it calmly and rationally I'm sure she will understand where you're coming from. Good luck!
Last March we both got new boyfriends. Little did I know that our friendship would start to dissolve. She was over at our boyfriends apartment every day and night (our boyfriends are friends lol). She new that we weren't getting to see each other as much and said she felt bad. But she continued.
Our boyfriends stopped having their apartment together and moved back in with their parents temporarily over the summer (last year). We weren't texting very much anymore.
She started smoking weed all the time, and I needed to find a job - so it's not like I was going to do that.
By August, her 18th birthday approached and she talked to me about moving together but I said we shouldn't since she started smoking cigarettes and she wanted to smoke inside (when I don't smoke at all!). and I knew her boyfriend wanted to move in with her. They were glued to each other.
So in september I got lost and couldn't find a bus to get back home (she had her boyfriend pick me up - just him- she was at work) and we were talking and I asked how he was and he said he was getting ready to move the furniture and stuff into the apartment. And I was like ';oh what apartment?'; and he looked shocked and said that he and my ';best friend'; were moving in together in like a week! I didn't mind, I was just shocked because she didn't tell me anything! and when I texted her asking about it she said she wanted to tell me and was upset that her boyfriend accidentally told me.
Then a month later she starts talking to me asking if my tattoo hurt too much when I got it. I said it didn't hurt an insane amount but it definitely hurt. I said why are you getting one? and she said yes and I was like ';oh I want to come!'; she had been there when I got mine and I said (when we were still close) that I totally had to go with her for hers. She said ';in five minutes!'; I was like X_X! I couldn't believe it. I was like why didn't you tell me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and she just said she thought I would be too busy.
Then in December I gave her this neat thing that lights up and creates bubbles in water (kind of like a late housewarming gift) and we hugged (we never hug) and the next day I asked if she set it up yet and she said she was too busy. That's the last I've talked to her. So yes its been about a month and a half.
During the span of time of our dissolving friendship I went through a series of depressions that would sometimes last a couple days. I would burst into tears at a sudden thought of her, and it caused me a great deal of pain.
It was like waking up with your arm or leg amputated and you don't know why.
Do you have any helpful comments or stories?
I'm trying to purge her out of my life. That's why I saw her in the december of last year, to get rid of my baggage and not deal with it in the new year.
Thanks for readingMy best friend left me for her boyfriend. have any similar stories?
It sounds like you two are just growing apart. Different interests, different life-paths. We don't always stay friends with our friends from High School. I had the same best friend from Kindergarten though High School graduation. After that we kept in touch a little bit, but I honestly haven't spoken to him in probably 3 or 4 years.
It can be frustrating or hurtful, but it's not inherently bad. You don't have to dislike her if your growing apart, just accept that that's the way things are sometimes.
If you REALLY want to remain close, verbalize this to her. Tell her how you feel in a kind and understanding way. Tell her that you recognize your drifting apart, and that if it were up to you that would not happen. The reality is that it may not be up to you, but if you approach it calmly and rationally I'm sure she will understand where you're coming from. Good luck!
Need advice on complicated trust situation?
Quick rundown:
.Our marriage was shaky for a long time (each felt lonely)
.We have two kids, 4 and 6
.10 years ago I sent several emails to an escort service, asking about the process, etc ( when, where, how much etc )
.My wife found the emails. I felt sorry, embarrassed, I obviously stopped the BS.
.Now about 8 months ago I found my wife was texting a neighbour guy
. When confronted, she said it was just a friend and that it was about a business she wanted to start.
. That she didn't tell me because she thought I didn't like the business idea.
. I said that was BS, got really mad, and she said ';ok, started as a business thing, but we became friends, but there is nothing going on';.
. Again I didn't believe that and told her ';this is your last chance to tell the truth, I ll get the SMS records from the phone company';.
. Then she said, no no don't do that, ok there were only a few inappropriate messages ( sex stuff, that ';started innocent, and it got out of hand'; ).
.They had this relationship for about 2.5 months, texting constantly all day.
. After confronting her, we had a big argument, blow up, whatever you call it. I felt devastated, humiliated, etc
.That night though I calmed down, said that I would forgive her, that I understood the feeling of being wanted, and that It could ve very well have been me on her shoes.
. I also told her that I was relieved that that was it ( just messages ), and that this was a great opportunity for us to get together again, get close to each other, and work on our marriage.
. After that I went to the guy's house, and told him to leave my family alone. ( the guy lives 4 houses down, this fact alone prevents me from forgetting )
. A week later, I find out she is still sending this guy messages through Facebook, and obviously concealing them from me.
. I confronted her, and she said '; I don't know why I am doing this, I have low self esteem issues, and after you went to his house I felt he would hate me, and I felt that I still had to message, and be nice, and still be liked';. All of which I thought was really ****** up if true, but who am I to judge what is happening in her head. I was personally dumbfounded, in disbelief, I could not believe her poor judgement.
. For the next month and a half I was very depressed, and we were on shaky ground, but I still wanted to keep our marriage together.
. I completely lost trust in her, and got really paranoid about what else I didn't know. Felt that my life was a complete lie.
. In the meantime she was on the phone with her friends and family, trashing me ( ';he is so selfish, he is paranoid that I ll be talking to my friends about stuff I shouldn't ( our personal problems ), or that I ll be talking crap about him to my family, he is like a child, he needs to grow up...'; etc )
. I caught one of this conversations with her mother, and that just sent me to a really deep black hole, which I am still not out of.
. My mental state has changed completely, my work is not the same, I am certainly depressed, very angry, resentful. ( 8 months after )
. I still want to keep the family together, and she says that she does too.
. My mind though is really playing tricks on me, and even though I want to let all that stuff go, and move forward, and be positive; my thoughts don't quite let me. I keep thinking I should distrust her completely. That she ll never be there for me if I need her. That she has no repect whatsoever for me, etc etc etc. It makes my day to day life miserable to say the least.
Can you please comment on this, and give me advice ?
ThanksNeed advice on complicated trust situation?
You two need couples counseling %26amp; fast.
If this keeps up I see either you or her leaving the marriage.Need advice on complicated trust situation?
You guys need counseling if both of you are that lonely inside of a relationship.
Try counseling!
Wow. I think if you want to keep the marriage together you have to move. I know it sounds extreme, but big decisions call for big actions. She's already formed a bond with this guy and that's going to be hard to break with him being 4 houses down. You don't trust her, she doesn't trust you. Get a therapist and work on this with your wife. You'll have to set up ground rules that you're both comfortable with and follow them to a T. It's not going to be easy but people have gotten over worse.
boss, it is very weak situation there. try couple therapy. if you both are willing there tons of articles on web that you should read together. AT the end of the day, it up to both of you. Do not give up.
I have a one for normal situations but this one is really a big one. I wonder how she can even think like this. you have two kids. I would say go away for few days on vacation. leave kids with grand parents. take one week off to discuss and build back the days you have been happy.
I think your wife talks a lot but don't act much. She wants to keep the marriage together but will keep a 'relationship' behind your back, bad mouth you to her mother etc. Seriously, can you sit down and each write down what you want to change in your marriage, how things should be, what's acceptable what's not and both agree to change. No efforts...no marriage, that's where you're at.
..and like everyone said, invest in counseling.
Therapy, both of you, separately and jointly. NOW.
you def. have a very valid reason to be so upset..demand either she stop the contact with him or she move herself on in with him...she can't help you fix your marriage if she's focused on someone else....
To be honest with you, This kind of woman that can not control her behavior is unreliable and unstable and I would start a new life away from her if I were you.
.Our marriage was shaky for a long time (each felt lonely)
.We have two kids, 4 and 6
.10 years ago I sent several emails to an escort service, asking about the process, etc ( when, where, how much etc )
.My wife found the emails. I felt sorry, embarrassed, I obviously stopped the BS.
.Now about 8 months ago I found my wife was texting a neighbour guy
. When confronted, she said it was just a friend and that it was about a business she wanted to start.
. That she didn't tell me because she thought I didn't like the business idea.
. I said that was BS, got really mad, and she said ';ok, started as a business thing, but we became friends, but there is nothing going on';.
. Again I didn't believe that and told her ';this is your last chance to tell the truth, I ll get the SMS records from the phone company';.
. Then she said, no no don't do that, ok there were only a few inappropriate messages ( sex stuff, that ';started innocent, and it got out of hand'; ).
.They had this relationship for about 2.5 months, texting constantly all day.
. After confronting her, we had a big argument, blow up, whatever you call it. I felt devastated, humiliated, etc
.That night though I calmed down, said that I would forgive her, that I understood the feeling of being wanted, and that It could ve very well have been me on her shoes.
. I also told her that I was relieved that that was it ( just messages ), and that this was a great opportunity for us to get together again, get close to each other, and work on our marriage.
. After that I went to the guy's house, and told him to leave my family alone. ( the guy lives 4 houses down, this fact alone prevents me from forgetting )
. A week later, I find out she is still sending this guy messages through Facebook, and obviously concealing them from me.
. I confronted her, and she said '; I don't know why I am doing this, I have low self esteem issues, and after you went to his house I felt he would hate me, and I felt that I still had to message, and be nice, and still be liked';. All of which I thought was really ****** up if true, but who am I to judge what is happening in her head. I was personally dumbfounded, in disbelief, I could not believe her poor judgement.
. For the next month and a half I was very depressed, and we were on shaky ground, but I still wanted to keep our marriage together.
. I completely lost trust in her, and got really paranoid about what else I didn't know. Felt that my life was a complete lie.
. In the meantime she was on the phone with her friends and family, trashing me ( ';he is so selfish, he is paranoid that I ll be talking to my friends about stuff I shouldn't ( our personal problems ), or that I ll be talking crap about him to my family, he is like a child, he needs to grow up...'; etc )
. I caught one of this conversations with her mother, and that just sent me to a really deep black hole, which I am still not out of.
. My mental state has changed completely, my work is not the same, I am certainly depressed, very angry, resentful. ( 8 months after )
. I still want to keep the family together, and she says that she does too.
. My mind though is really playing tricks on me, and even though I want to let all that stuff go, and move forward, and be positive; my thoughts don't quite let me. I keep thinking I should distrust her completely. That she ll never be there for me if I need her. That she has no repect whatsoever for me, etc etc etc. It makes my day to day life miserable to say the least.
Can you please comment on this, and give me advice ?
ThanksNeed advice on complicated trust situation?
You two need couples counseling %26amp; fast.
If this keeps up I see either you or her leaving the marriage.Need advice on complicated trust situation?
You guys need counseling if both of you are that lonely inside of a relationship.
Try counseling!
Wow. I think if you want to keep the marriage together you have to move. I know it sounds extreme, but big decisions call for big actions. She's already formed a bond with this guy and that's going to be hard to break with him being 4 houses down. You don't trust her, she doesn't trust you. Get a therapist and work on this with your wife. You'll have to set up ground rules that you're both comfortable with and follow them to a T. It's not going to be easy but people have gotten over worse.
boss, it is very weak situation there. try couple therapy. if you both are willing there tons of articles on web that you should read together. AT the end of the day, it up to both of you. Do not give up.
I have a one for normal situations but this one is really a big one. I wonder how she can even think like this. you have two kids. I would say go away for few days on vacation. leave kids with grand parents. take one week off to discuss and build back the days you have been happy.
I think your wife talks a lot but don't act much. She wants to keep the marriage together but will keep a 'relationship' behind your back, bad mouth you to her mother etc. Seriously, can you sit down and each write down what you want to change in your marriage, how things should be, what's acceptable what's not and both agree to change. No efforts...no marriage, that's where you're at.
..and like everyone said, invest in counseling.
Therapy, both of you, separately and jointly. NOW.
you def. have a very valid reason to be so upset..demand either she stop the contact with him or she move herself on in with him...she can't help you fix your marriage if she's focused on someone else....
To be honest with you, This kind of woman that can not control her behavior is unreliable and unstable and I would start a new life away from her if I were you.
I need help choosing between two girls. Please help.?
The first girl [perla] knows that i like her but she tells me that she isn't looking for a boyfriend rite now %26amp; the second girl [marie] idk why but i feel the vibe [if you know what i mean] that she likes me. Well i talk two perla only on myspace cuz she has no minutes on her phone so she only texts and i can't text or i talk two her when i see her at church %26amp; marie, i can talk two her whenever cuz i can call her or myspace her. Some of my friends think that perla likes me cuz of the conversations we had, like i was sick one day and i told her and she was like awww pobrecito [poor baby, basically] and i was like yeahh i know then i said you wanna be my doctor lol then she said lol what can i do for you and i said you can be my medicine i need a daily dose of you everyday then she said will that make you feel better today 4sho and i said yeahh but i'mma need my dose for tomorrow, the next day and so on trust me i can't OD on you then she said alrite sounds firme [kool] yeahh i can do that for you so cuz of that i decided two surprise her with a song [freestyle] but i ended telling her before i finished and she was like awww your sweet and stuff like that and i was like yeahh thats how i would treat you if you were my girl and then she was like yeahh but i'm not looking for a boyfriend rite now and i was like yeahh i know you told me before and i told her that my problem is that i tend to try two move things two fast yuhh know then she said yeahh just let things go with the flow and i said yeahh i'mma try two take it slow and let things go with the flow then she said with a smiley face sounds like a plan. another time i didn't message her for like about a week and then one day i get a message from her with a sad face saying forgot about me and i said nahh never why then she just wrote back with a sad face and i said whats wrong then she said its cuz i feel like you forgot about me or replaced me and i said nahh i didn't forget about you and trust me you're irreplacable you're always on my mind and you're always gonna have a place in my heart and she wrote back awww i feel special now and yeahh so on haha plus i always compliment her every once in awhile. well with marie i met her this year in february and yeahh i started liking her from the get go cuz personality wise she was just like me well not like exactly as me but kinda yuhh know and yeahh i'd compliment her and stuff i even wrote her a poem and thats when she said aww your so sweet and i would so go out with you but you live kinda far how will we see each other and i was like yeahh true [but now i can drive or take the bus two see marie and she lives like about 14 minutes away and perla live like about 20 minutes away] and after that we talked a little more and we just stopped and just recently we started talking again and i started liking her again but at the same time i like perla and thats when i started losing my mind one piece at a time cuz idk what two do, idk who two pick. I just wanna make the rite decision yuhh know. someone please help me i'm begging. if you need two know more stuff just let me know and i'll add it on the detail part. thanks.I need help choosing between two girls. Please help.?
Let the girls choose if they want you. You can not choose them. Choosing the best is always better for the girl to do.I need help choosing between two girls. Please help.?
Dont choose , do them both, (sorry I did not read the novel of a question)
Always go with the Veronica.
How could someone help you decide what makes you happy?? You can figure this out on your own. It's odd to ask others.
You go to church? I thought murdering the english language was a sin or something.
choose da 1 u like da mostttttt
be with the one that you dont want to see with anyone else- the one who makes you happy
PlEaSe HeLp Me %26lt;3
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I actually read the entire thing.
You should have added a works cited page since you used a lot of lyrics from songs.
Anyway, keep in touch with both girls, but move on with your life.
I think it will do you good to explore the outside world, maybe outside the walls of myspace or text messaging or little immature boy and girls.
I actually read that, ahhaa.
That was a novel.
But anyways,
I think Perla sounds very nice.
The distance doesn't matter.
It just really seems like she cares.
If she doesn't want a boyfriend right now.
Then wait for her.
I agree with ';dont choose do them both';visual c++ runtime error
Let the girls choose if they want you. You can not choose them. Choosing the best is always better for the girl to do.I need help choosing between two girls. Please help.?
Dont choose , do them both, (sorry I did not read the novel of a question)
Always go with the Veronica.
How could someone help you decide what makes you happy?? You can figure this out on your own. It's odd to ask others.
You go to church? I thought murdering the english language was a sin or something.
choose da 1 u like da mostttttt
be with the one that you dont want to see with anyone else- the one who makes you happy
PlEaSe HeLp Me %26lt;3
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
I actually read the entire thing.
You should have added a works cited page since you used a lot of lyrics from songs.
Anyway, keep in touch with both girls, but move on with your life.
I think it will do you good to explore the outside world, maybe outside the walls of myspace or text messaging or little immature boy and girls.
I actually read that, ahhaa.
That was a novel.
But anyways,
I think Perla sounds very nice.
The distance doesn't matter.
It just really seems like she cares.
If she doesn't want a boyfriend right now.
Then wait for her.
I agree with ';dont choose do them both';
Problem with my mom, i need a parents advice or point of view...please please help me :(?
ok so i really need help with this...maybe some of you mothers out there can give me a point of view i can understand
me and my mom have always had a rocky relationship...probably since i was around 15 or so...i developed a mind of my own and rebelled...i never did anything outrageous, just the normal stuff....
well i moved out of my parents house when i was 18 because i didnt get along with them at all...i realized about a year after that, that i was not ready...i was too immature and i went back to live with my parents when they offered...
now im back there and have been there for a couple years now... (im 21)...ive grown up alot and learned alot of things the hard way...at the age of 21 i work full time and go to school full time so i dont pay my parents rent or anything...i feel like im ready to move out but im paying for my school outta my pocket so i have to wait til i graduate...
even thought im 21 i have a curfew...i understand thats my parents house and i respect their wishes and am home before my curfew unless i am staying with a friend...
i dont drink, i dont go out, i dont go to bars, and i always try to do the right thing...
my mom is still constantly questioning where i am, what im doing, what i spend my money on and telling me because i dont help around tthe house every day i dont appreciate living there and i dont respect them....im on the go from 6 am to midnight...then after i get home i have homework and studying to do...i dont mind helping once thats done but to be honest, even thought im 21, im EXHAUSTED alot...
this past weekend i stayed with a friend, and all week after i cam home my mom has avoided me like she was mad at something....
finally today i stayed out of school to catch up on some laundry and sleep and studying...she came in my room and went off on me about how i disrespected her by not coming home and helping around the house...i told her that i am an adult and i feel like if i want to stay at a friends house one weekend, i am entitled to that without wondering if she will be mad about some dishes...
we got in a HUGE fight, she ended up callin me an ';***hole'; which hurt me...she went into a tantrum and was screaming at the top of her lungs how i dont appreciate anything and how my life is SO easy and she clenched her fists and just screamed to the top of her lungs....
when i told her she needed to calm down she got offended and said for me not to tell her what to do...i ask her if we could talk about this wen she calmed down she said no u will listen now...we argued for probably 45 minutes with her screaming throwing a tantrum and me sittin there takin it feelin like im a 4 year old...
when she left the house she squealed tires and i called her and i said mom please stop driving like that you gonna reck
she said ';good maybe ill reck and die and i wont have to be in your life anymore'; and hung up
that really hurt me...i dont know how to solve this, or even if i can...we clash for a while, then we get along for a while, then we argue...i know she loves me but sometimes i feel like she doesnt like me at all...randomly for no reason she will just wont speak to me for a week and when im around shes slammin stuff around and slammin doors...
i am SOO tired of this...i love my mom and in no way am i trying to call her a bad mother...i am just very hurt by her sometimes and i dont know how to approach her or please her for that matter...i want my mom and i to have a good relationship...i want that more than anything...
i know i dont help around the house as much as i should but i am so tired most nights i just wana crash after i study
is there any suggestions on how i can approach my mom and effectively talk to her to where this can change...if not is there any suggestions on how i can cope with this until i graduate
this may sound petty or dumb but to me it is a huge deal...thats my mom, the only one i have and i want us to enjoy the time i have still living there...
please help meProblem with my mom, i need a parents advice or point of view...please please help me :(?
sorry hun, you can't change another person. she cares for you, she worries after you, she resents your growing up and not being under her control (actually because she cares about you-- it is hard to be a sane mom).
You can't explain things to her. She doesn't want to listen. And you won't change her. SO armed with that information, what can you do to remove yourself from the situation. The way I see it, there are two options:
1. move out. Or just bide your time until you do.
2. learn to not accept the gift of her anger. She's giving it to you and you're accepting it. You are allowing her words to enter you. You are doing this with good intentions, you want to make things better. but you want to do so by making HER see. By stopping her. The truth is, her feelings belong to her. Your feelings belong to you. The only person to work on is yourself.
I have learned that the only way I must react to my mother or any one else is to take a breath. Then another. And another. All I ever have to do is breathe. I do not have to react. I do not have to accept the gift of another person's anger. I do not have to mold myself into being the person she wants me to be.
You should do housework. No matter how tired your mom was when you were a baby (and she WAS tired in a way that no child-less person can understand) she still got up and ran to you when you needed her. She still washed your diapers and bibs. She deserves your help now, particularly since you eat her food and live under her roof.
As far as I'm concerned, adult or no, you do what is asked of you when you mooch off another person, parents included.
OR just move out. These are not simple choices. Welcome to adulthood.Problem with my mom, i need a parents advice or point of view...please please help me :(?
From what you wrote it honestly sounds like your mom is being unreasonable. So what if you crash at a friends place? Parents like your mother are too controlling.
It's time you moved out, sweetheart. Keep the full time job to support yourself and get an apartment. Cut back the school time so that you can take care of yourself and keep your own place clean. From time to time, take your Mom to dinner and a movie to stay in touch and so that she knows you love her. Don't say you can't move out. You can but something has to give and I think it should be your time in school. Cut back a bit and move out.
I'm curious about a few things.
What does your Dad think about your relationship with Mom? And were you his ';princess'; when you were a kid?
The Mother/Daughter dynamic (especially when the daughter is a teen) - that dynamic has it's stresses - just like the Father/Son. There are plenty of Dad's out there that think they %26amp; their sons need to take things to a fight for the son to finally ';assert'; himself as a man - BS if you ask me, but these weird dynamics are just that - weird.
On some very base level, your Mom may see you as ';competition';. Face it, most women get b^tchy around other women.
Did Mom get to go to college? Or did she get married/pregnant pretty young %26amp; so that part of her life never happened?
She could be jealous of your opportunities/life.
The curfew. It s*cks that you have one - at your age. But you have to look at it as the price you pay for living rent free - and able to pursue your education. As far as her interrogating you when/where you've been, I still go back to my question before of if she was married %26amp; pregnant young? Maybe she was a really wild teen and worries you could end up like her?
Her huge tantrum was unacceptible. For sure. Middle aged women get messed up by their hormones, just like young ones do. Is she going through menopause? Some women get nuts during that time.
I think I probably would have just walked out and left the house if my mom went ape-sh^t like yours did. There was absolutely no way you were going to be able to reason with her, let alone convince her of your point of view.
What is your Dad's policy on this curfew? Does he agree with her? Or can you enlist his aid - not so much as an obvious ally, but more of him gently nudging your Mom - behind the scenes, so to speak?
But you do need to have an adult discussion about the living arrangements. How you approach it? Good question. You Mom behaves unreasonably - I'd be afraid to go there...
She should be in a quiet, content mood. When you talk about it, talk about how You feel, use ';I'; alot and not ';you';. Making statements at her (';you never trust me';) will only put her on the defensive. Make it about how hard you're working, how worried you are about passing, etc. and ask what it is you've done to cause her to lose trust.
Good luck.
Make a schedule to fit things in with your life.
Your mom has no respect for you it seems.
If she yells at you again, just leave for the day and come back at night or if you leave at night, then come back the next day.
Tell your mom how you feel and if she interupts you just sit there and ignore her. When she's done talking start talking again.
me and my mom have always had a rocky relationship...probably since i was around 15 or so...i developed a mind of my own and rebelled...i never did anything outrageous, just the normal stuff....
well i moved out of my parents house when i was 18 because i didnt get along with them at all...i realized about a year after that, that i was not ready...i was too immature and i went back to live with my parents when they offered...
now im back there and have been there for a couple years now... (im 21)...ive grown up alot and learned alot of things the hard way...at the age of 21 i work full time and go to school full time so i dont pay my parents rent or anything...i feel like im ready to move out but im paying for my school outta my pocket so i have to wait til i graduate...
even thought im 21 i have a curfew...i understand thats my parents house and i respect their wishes and am home before my curfew unless i am staying with a friend...
i dont drink, i dont go out, i dont go to bars, and i always try to do the right thing...
my mom is still constantly questioning where i am, what im doing, what i spend my money on and telling me because i dont help around tthe house every day i dont appreciate living there and i dont respect them....im on the go from 6 am to midnight...then after i get home i have homework and studying to do...i dont mind helping once thats done but to be honest, even thought im 21, im EXHAUSTED alot...
this past weekend i stayed with a friend, and all week after i cam home my mom has avoided me like she was mad at something....
finally today i stayed out of school to catch up on some laundry and sleep and studying...she came in my room and went off on me about how i disrespected her by not coming home and helping around the house...i told her that i am an adult and i feel like if i want to stay at a friends house one weekend, i am entitled to that without wondering if she will be mad about some dishes...
we got in a HUGE fight, she ended up callin me an ';***hole'; which hurt me...she went into a tantrum and was screaming at the top of her lungs how i dont appreciate anything and how my life is SO easy and she clenched her fists and just screamed to the top of her lungs....
when i told her she needed to calm down she got offended and said for me not to tell her what to do...i ask her if we could talk about this wen she calmed down she said no u will listen now...we argued for probably 45 minutes with her screaming throwing a tantrum and me sittin there takin it feelin like im a 4 year old...
when she left the house she squealed tires and i called her and i said mom please stop driving like that you gonna reck
she said ';good maybe ill reck and die and i wont have to be in your life anymore'; and hung up
that really hurt me...i dont know how to solve this, or even if i can...we clash for a while, then we get along for a while, then we argue...i know she loves me but sometimes i feel like she doesnt like me at all...randomly for no reason she will just wont speak to me for a week and when im around shes slammin stuff around and slammin doors...
i am SOO tired of this...i love my mom and in no way am i trying to call her a bad mother...i am just very hurt by her sometimes and i dont know how to approach her or please her for that matter...i want my mom and i to have a good relationship...i want that more than anything...
i know i dont help around the house as much as i should but i am so tired most nights i just wana crash after i study
is there any suggestions on how i can approach my mom and effectively talk to her to where this can change...if not is there any suggestions on how i can cope with this until i graduate
this may sound petty or dumb but to me it is a huge deal...thats my mom, the only one i have and i want us to enjoy the time i have still living there...
please help meProblem with my mom, i need a parents advice or point of view...please please help me :(?
sorry hun, you can't change another person. she cares for you, she worries after you, she resents your growing up and not being under her control (actually because she cares about you-- it is hard to be a sane mom).
You can't explain things to her. She doesn't want to listen. And you won't change her. SO armed with that information, what can you do to remove yourself from the situation. The way I see it, there are two options:
1. move out. Or just bide your time until you do.
2. learn to not accept the gift of her anger. She's giving it to you and you're accepting it. You are allowing her words to enter you. You are doing this with good intentions, you want to make things better. but you want to do so by making HER see. By stopping her. The truth is, her feelings belong to her. Your feelings belong to you. The only person to work on is yourself.
I have learned that the only way I must react to my mother or any one else is to take a breath. Then another. And another. All I ever have to do is breathe. I do not have to react. I do not have to accept the gift of another person's anger. I do not have to mold myself into being the person she wants me to be.
You should do housework. No matter how tired your mom was when you were a baby (and she WAS tired in a way that no child-less person can understand) she still got up and ran to you when you needed her. She still washed your diapers and bibs. She deserves your help now, particularly since you eat her food and live under her roof.
As far as I'm concerned, adult or no, you do what is asked of you when you mooch off another person, parents included.
OR just move out. These are not simple choices. Welcome to adulthood.Problem with my mom, i need a parents advice or point of view...please please help me :(?
From what you wrote it honestly sounds like your mom is being unreasonable. So what if you crash at a friends place? Parents like your mother are too controlling.
It's time you moved out, sweetheart. Keep the full time job to support yourself and get an apartment. Cut back the school time so that you can take care of yourself and keep your own place clean. From time to time, take your Mom to dinner and a movie to stay in touch and so that she knows you love her. Don't say you can't move out. You can but something has to give and I think it should be your time in school. Cut back a bit and move out.
I'm curious about a few things.
What does your Dad think about your relationship with Mom? And were you his ';princess'; when you were a kid?
The Mother/Daughter dynamic (especially when the daughter is a teen) - that dynamic has it's stresses - just like the Father/Son. There are plenty of Dad's out there that think they %26amp; their sons need to take things to a fight for the son to finally ';assert'; himself as a man - BS if you ask me, but these weird dynamics are just that - weird.
On some very base level, your Mom may see you as ';competition';. Face it, most women get b^tchy around other women.
Did Mom get to go to college? Or did she get married/pregnant pretty young %26amp; so that part of her life never happened?
She could be jealous of your opportunities/life.
The curfew. It s*cks that you have one - at your age. But you have to look at it as the price you pay for living rent free - and able to pursue your education. As far as her interrogating you when/where you've been, I still go back to my question before of if she was married %26amp; pregnant young? Maybe she was a really wild teen and worries you could end up like her?
Her huge tantrum was unacceptible. For sure. Middle aged women get messed up by their hormones, just like young ones do. Is she going through menopause? Some women get nuts during that time.
I think I probably would have just walked out and left the house if my mom went ape-sh^t like yours did. There was absolutely no way you were going to be able to reason with her, let alone convince her of your point of view.
What is your Dad's policy on this curfew? Does he agree with her? Or can you enlist his aid - not so much as an obvious ally, but more of him gently nudging your Mom - behind the scenes, so to speak?
But you do need to have an adult discussion about the living arrangements. How you approach it? Good question. You Mom behaves unreasonably - I'd be afraid to go there...
She should be in a quiet, content mood. When you talk about it, talk about how You feel, use ';I'; alot and not ';you';. Making statements at her (';you never trust me';) will only put her on the defensive. Make it about how hard you're working, how worried you are about passing, etc. and ask what it is you've done to cause her to lose trust.
Good luck.
Make a schedule to fit things in with your life.
Your mom has no respect for you it seems.
If she yells at you again, just leave for the day and come back at night or if you leave at night, then come back the next day.
Tell your mom how you feel and if she interupts you just sit there and ignore her. When she's done talking start talking again.
I have girl troubles?please help???
Okay so i have a friend that is a girl we have lots of the same interest and stuff, which is why im so confused.i totally thought she liked me we would text all night like untill 5AM...we would talk on the phone.weve known each other for about 4 months.we hung out and decided we would be pretend bf/gf just to like see what our friends would say...people kept asking us and were like were just playin so we were in the car on the way home and she moved to the far left and me on the right knowing that i was gnna make a REAL move if she sat in the middle....then she moved to the middle....ive never had a gf or did this before not because i cant get one just cause i never liked anyone and people like me before they even know me.i thought this girl actually liked me cause she actually knew me.so about 10 minutes later were holding hands her head on my shoulder. i pick up her hand and kiss it.then she giggled it didnt seem nervous but rather i thought she liked it so then im like well can i kiss you on your head and she is like mhhhmm a little while later im like cheek? and she is like yes then i do that a few times and then lips?once again approval. her head is on my shoulder pretty much the rest of the way home..so after a while im like soo does this mean we can be bf/gf for real?and she is like idk you havnt asked me out yet?so then i do and she is like let me think..honestly right there i knew it was done and over no was prlly the answer.the next day i was out all day at a theme park and couldnt get her off my mind.i finally got a myspace message alert of the way home saying i received a message from her.so i get home and open it.all i can see is the words sticking out sorry but i dont feel the same.so i sat there thinking for about an hour or two wow what happened?it didnt make any sense to me.the worst part of that message was that she said she spent all night and all day crying over how to tell me.i wrote two messages out 1 being the polite one saying sorry for kissing you your write we should hang out more.then another one saying that i didnt like her that much anyway and going out for an asexual cause(like going out but not having any feelings)i sent the second one being a stupid boy:[ after a while she replied and was really mad saying f*** it and stuff like that.then she was like i dont wnna be friends anymore.that hurt i could deal with her not liking me like i said lots of girls like me i jst never give thm a chance.but whn she said she didnt wanna be friends it hurt bad.so any one know why she is mad at me?shouldnt i be the one mad? im not at all...did she expect me to talk about how amazing she was and how i like her alot??tht wouldve been the truth but then it would make me sound weird?so i kept messaging her saying im sorry for thinking of an excuss and not admitting i like her.finally she is like fine its not gonna be the same untill you build my trust back up so im messaging her again and it says she read the message..yet no reply?so after a few days im like um hello eh no replys...im like are u taking my way out of things?which is whn u ignore people who like you.she replys and says no dont flatter yourself like twice. thn she said i need some time alone..im really confused why does she need time?no offense to her but i made up excuss i was EMBARRASSED she was the girl who told me you should talk about your feelings and stuff and where does it get me?if she didnt say that i prlly wouldve never kissed her or even touched her at all.so i really have no idea what to do..i just dont get it.is all of this my fault?because of what i said??what should i do?i dont want her to forget me?so what do you guys think of this??i still like her but im willing to sacrafice those feelings to become friends?it makes no sense to me?sooo idkplease help i want this girl as a friend.or i maybe its i need this girl as a friend.and why did she keep her head on me goshhh that hurts.........
Thanks =)I have girl troubles?please help???
hey, i was that 'girl' once.what happened was, after all that affection towards each other. the very next day; i back out. i apologised to him saying that i didnt mean it to happened.ohh well; here goes.
after all that kissing and stuffs.i realised that i just cant be in a relationship with him now.maybe in the future .apart from that its because i cant forget my ex.
all that happen cause- she wanted love from you.she wants to feel it (love) all over again.
why it happen - she realises her mistake that she's giving you a too high hope and that she doesnt want to back out but stay as friends only.
what you should do? - APOLOGISE quickly..
cause you doesnt meant what you said to her right? please say that you didnt meant what you said,confess your true feelings towards her.ask her why is she suddenly backing out.and, you will only respect her decision if she wanna be only friends cause you dont wanna lose her.
do not force her to answer.give her time. make her feel comfortable with you again.if possible,meet her up gave her a bouquet of flowers or something.haha.sometimes you've gotta score points!do not be iritating pls by keep texting her saying how sorry you were.
play it cool man,chill. be very PATIENCE!..
your time is critical.and all the best to you.
ps:make her come back to where she belongs again - your heartI have girl troubles?please help???
Ok.
okay here's something you need to know about girls..
they love attention and affection, it doesn't matter if they like you or not. When you flirt with them, hug them, kiss them or anything of the sort they like it because it makes them feel pretty or loved.
But I would say drop her altogether if she is going to use you like that.
She said she needs time because she doesn't WANT to explain that she used you to boast her self-esteem.
She will never forget you, trust me, being a girl myself, you just don't forget people that you have been in relationships with.
Move on, you sound young. You seem like a smart guy.
Thanks =)I have girl troubles?please help???
hey, i was that 'girl' once.what happened was, after all that affection towards each other. the very next day; i back out. i apologised to him saying that i didnt mean it to happened.ohh well; here goes.
after all that kissing and stuffs.i realised that i just cant be in a relationship with him now.maybe in the future .apart from that its because i cant forget my ex.
all that happen cause- she wanted love from you.she wants to feel it (love) all over again.
why it happen - she realises her mistake that she's giving you a too high hope and that she doesnt want to back out but stay as friends only.
what you should do? - APOLOGISE quickly..
cause you doesnt meant what you said to her right? please say that you didnt meant what you said,confess your true feelings towards her.ask her why is she suddenly backing out.and, you will only respect her decision if she wanna be only friends cause you dont wanna lose her.
do not force her to answer.give her time. make her feel comfortable with you again.if possible,meet her up gave her a bouquet of flowers or something.haha.sometimes you've gotta score points!do not be iritating pls by keep texting her saying how sorry you were.
play it cool man,chill. be very PATIENCE!..
your time is critical.and all the best to you.
ps:make her come back to where she belongs again - your heartI have girl troubles?please help???
Ok.
okay here's something you need to know about girls..
they love attention and affection, it doesn't matter if they like you or not. When you flirt with them, hug them, kiss them or anything of the sort they like it because it makes them feel pretty or loved.
But I would say drop her altogether if she is going to use you like that.
She said she needs time because she doesn't WANT to explain that she used you to boast her self-esteem.
She will never forget you, trust me, being a girl myself, you just don't forget people that you have been in relationships with.
Move on, you sound young. You seem like a smart guy.
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