Are my friends real friends? can you ever have a real friendship?

my friends well, i moved forms and made friends with some of the people in there and i made a good friendship with one of the other guys in the form but i feel like i follow him around at lunch and stuff i feel awkward cause all my other friends would h8 it if i hanged around with them at lunch so i just hang around with him - so we were talking and he said oh dont worry about it i dont mind your a good m8 but we never been to each others house or gone up town or anything like that,(i invitied him a few times but he shrugs it off her maybe or i might be doing something) am i becoming a follower? (as i have been called a few times) but how do i become someone who you can invite to go places etc id like to do stuff like that but i think they think im boring and a boffin so i cant be invitied to go places cause im not ';cool enough'; ?

will i ever have a real best friend?Are my friends real friends? can you ever have a real friendship?
The best friend you could ever meet s YOU. why wasting time and energy on being with people who ignores you or ditches you out? Start spending lunch time by yourself or sitting at different tables with different people. It will be awkward at first, but you'll talk to people eventually and they're going to talk back at you. Love yourself you're a wonderful person and if your ';friends'; don't want to hang out with you, well, it's their loss.Are my friends real friends? can you ever have a real friendship?
Friendship is rare nowdays but whatever you do u must never spend time with people who don't want to spend theirs with you...