Trying for a baby when your single?

This might sound weird u might wanna keep an open mind when u read this. Ever since ive been like 15 ive thought how much id love a baby but cos of obvious reasons you dont go through with it. Now im 20 ive had boyfriends in the past but none of them want kids yet. Ive got this guy friend and turns out he'd love a baby too. I was really into it cos he's black and mixed-race babies are well cute! We got talking about stuff and agreed we'd both always be there as parents.

Later we went back to his place and.. u know, did it. That was 6 weeks ago and the test was positive, we were at it like rabbits for the first week lol. We just dont know how to tell friends and our parents, so we agreed id move in with him to make it look like we're a couple. Its weird cos we dont love each other but we get on really well, the sex is amazing too.

This kinda relationship is fine surely?Trying for a baby when your single?
Are you Waynetta Slob?



';I wanna brown baby - 'cos all the other girls have got one';



Her quote not mine!



You sound very shallow and not ready for children.



However, you won't end up paying for it anyway...will you? Leave that to everyone else!



Why not try to build up a whole world of kids and see how they turn out??? You'll probably get a govt. grant for it!



Grow up.



(Regardless of my previous comments - I wish you no bad-will with your pregnancy - I'm not like that)



best wishes..just think a little......Trying for a baby when your single?
hahah well whatever floats your boat. thats an 18 year commitment you guys just made though
Oh you silly stupid stupid girl i hope my daughter does not grow up to be like you ,you have got no brain cells at all ,i pity you ,you have no idea what you have done,you sound like a child of about 14 yrs old ,no i will not insult 14yr olds they have more sense than you, what a disappointment you are.
...hard deal...
You are the one that has to make the decision. Having kids is a huge responsibility. Good luck
perfect cos you'll get to love each other good luck
Whatever you want but you two are in this together.
Yeah sure that is fine because you were friends to begin with and that's usually the best way to start a relationship



all the best.
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now u hav 2 stay togeher 4 18 years for ur info!



i'm not sure what 2 say but good luck 4 da future
Well you've done it now ... Love could come, but if it doesn't, what if you or he meets someone else they really fall for ...



Anyway I do wish you the best.
hopefully ull get along for 18 more years!!!

u sound like white trash, idiot
its kinda like the movie konocked up.. only u like the guy [[wellas a friend]].. i guess as long as your there for the kid and he is to.. then everything should be fine.. yall both just gotta put in the sme amount of work and he should still take care of you while ur preggo.. be a gentlman ya noe.. nd ur right.. mixed babys are cute!!.. nd when they grow up...lets just say yum=] lol
Well making a decision about the baby is too fast without knowing each other but you never know you might endup as good couple do what got to do to make the baby happy don't put pressure on the baby about your relationship. Tkae care
make not of how you sleep at night now, because for the next 18 or 20 yrs you wont sleep, feedings, diapers, colic, teething, don't want to sleep in own bed, colds, ear infections, new shoes every month, doctor bills, dentist bills, not to say any thing about the new clothes every time you turn around., no dates for you, dates for kid worrying all night what time he/she will get home and then guess what in 13, 14, 15 yrs she/he come and says mom i am or has gotten PREGNANT, and it starts all over again



It is hard enough to raise kids with a husband or wife around but why in the world would you want to do it alone.
do you want to be with someone you dont love? cause i wouldnt. what if you find that special guy one day and wish you had his child instead, how ever you wont regret your first child.

its good you get on and the sex is good ect, do you think you will fall for him? cause maybe he likes you, what men want a baby if they wasnt with someone they loved or married to? it's good for the baby too as long as you get on, you just have to think about if you want to be with someone you actually love. but if your happy then it is fine

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18 YEARS ?? MORE LIKE A LIFE TIME .... NO MATTER WHAT NOW YOU ARE GOING TO BE TIED TOGETHER BECAUSE OF THIS BABY .....





WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF SLEEPLESS NIGHT ,TEETHING ,COLIC, NAPPIES AND BEING FOREVER SKINT =)