How often does your husband/boyfriend visit his momma or other family?

Im almost 7 months prego and my boyfriend and I live together. He visits his mom atleast once a week and has lunch with her on Mondays but he usually sees her more than once b/c hes always doing stuff for her on the weekends. Shes still married to his dad but hes been out of town lately so doing stuff for her that I dont mind but spending one night a week with her and being gone all the time is getting old. He plays softball on Mondays, his 25 year old sister insists that he come to visit her every tuesday (im not invited) and he stays the night with his mother on Wednesdays or Thursdays. Then our weekends are filled with various things to do b/c we moved into a new house and we have a baby on the way! Do you think he may be doing this b/c he knows he wont be around them as much after the baby? Id like him to stay home more and help me around the house to get ready for the baby! I just think this is crazy. I talk to my mother every day but we dont see her but maybe 3 time a month and she lives near us as well! Does anyone else have this problem with their man and is it normal even after the baby was born? I just think that we are starting a family of our own and it not that we arent going to include them but we need to nest! Am i over reacting?How often does your husband/boyfriend visit his momma or other family?
i would suggest talking to him. its not good to not Communicate with each other about something that is bothering you. The way my husband is, he would have told his sister he is not coming over if i am not welcome because i am his wife. second of all, there is nothing wrong with him helping his mom, but he has a family now too that he needs to step up to the plate and help with. i would talk to him but watch how you talk to him about it. Ask him when he can help you and see what he says, then go from there. Make sure you tell him what needs to be done, he may not know.

Good luck!How often does your husband/boyfriend visit his momma or other family?
I think the big issue here is that he is spending nights away from you. You should go with him to his moms and sisters. If he says that you can't go then you need to verify that he acctually went. If he says that he wants you to go but his mother and sister say no then you should put you foot down and go anyway. If he is not willing to stand up for you to his family you really don't want to stay with him. Baby or no baby! you might just want to have a calm heart to heart, If you like the way things are right now then fine but if your worried that he will continue to leave you at home with a new born most nights of the week then you need to say something. and yes my finace used to leave all the time and start fights so that he could go out or he would say he was one place and then i would call and he wouldn't be there. He was doing cocaine! He is tottaly different now. Just keep your eyes open and don't put up with any anything if you don't like somthing say so because you will be keeping your mouth shut for the rest of you life.