Damn my life sucks I got a girl problem can someone help me out.?

O.k. 1st off im 18 yrs old and im already embarrassed as it is so if you aint got no real advice just keep it 2 urself and go on 2 the next question.





ok here is my story. I really like this girl i know maybe even im falling in love with her. idk but i've known her from school but i never had any intrest in her until the end of the year. when we started talking on aim. and i realized that we have soo much in common its scary. we like the same shows same foods same music same movies but we still have our own things like she's not into sports and i am. stuff like that. ! day i asked her out to a movie and she agreed. so we went to a movie but she had to run home because she was running late. we continued to talk to each other every now and again and made amny plans to hang out with one another most which didn't work out. until i heard nothing from her for a month.Later i found her on a website called crunchyroll.com and contacted her. she informed me that she had gotten kicked out of her crib so thats why i hadn't heard from her. so we continued to talk and i asked her out again. We went to another movie then we got some food and chilled at the mall. i brought her back to my house where we chilled and my momz came home and gave her a ride home at about 12 o'clock. she was supposed to be home at 7 so she got in trouble. i asked her to go to the beach with me but she couldn't and then yesterday my world came crashing down.





I was talking to her on aim when she told me that she was moving to springfeild MA in Febuary to get an apartment. i live in Taunton MA so thats madd far. i was pissed but i was trying to cover it up by saying stupid **** about how were gunna party then i jokingly said ';u love hanging out wit me. so admit that u like me'; she replyed that she ';like being wit me'; i kept going and said ';nah u like me as a man so admit it';. then all hell broke loose and she told me ';I just like you as a friend'; . ';why is that bad'; instead of keeping it a secret like i should have until we met in person i stupidly said ';yes cuz i really like you';. ';i want you as a gf'; I told her i really didn't want to tell her this on aim and wanted to say it in person. then she continued to tell me that i was ';too much of a friend'; i asked her to explain wat that means and she said she couldn't. again my stpuidity and emotions tookover and i wrote ';well wat about me dont you like'; she replied ';it nothing wrong wit you i just dont feel that way';. stupidly again i said ';wat can i do to get ur affection wat can i work on'; (i'm an idiot right) she said that I dont need to work on anything its just that she doesn't see me that way. so i said ';fine i accept your feelings but can i have a chance to change your mind';. she said that ';it wont work because most guys try to hard and end up pushing her away and i'll do the same';. I said ';i wont try to hard i'll just be your friend i understand your feelings';. then we started talking about other things and she told me that she was going to the mall today and i said ';give me a call when you leave and i'll try to meet up with you'; she said ';ok i'll try';and she left the convo and signed out.





Thats my story basically this girl was sending me mixed signals the whole time and i ended up falling in love with her. but she only thinks of me as a friend. I have until Febuary to get this girl to like me or else she will move away and probably meet someone else. I think i can say that there is no other guy out there better for this girl. not to be vain but im 6 foot 1 and tanned. (im cape verdean) smart(guud grades this year) athletic(been playing basketball all my life) I speak 4 languages (eng. spanish, portugese, %26amp; cape verdean creole) talented(singer, rapper and actor been in plays and won talent shows) and funny(even she has told me so. we laugh so much when were together) and im a real dude born and raised in Boston (so was she) but at the same time i was born talented and not good looking. I have bad acne ( which im tring to work on) braces (coming off in oct.) a skin tag on my left ear and a mole on my right ear(considering surgery) and im a lil' skinny in the upper body dept. even tho i have vey strong calf muscles from playing basketball (I work on my arms everyday and have seen improvement). and while im not fat i do have have some love handles ( when i suck it in it looks like i have a flat stomach). and im barrel chested ( its only noticeable if i take off my shirt tho). yea im not perfect but who is.





I have a plan for today to get the love seed rolling in her mind (so to speak) If she invites me to go to the mall with her i plan on buying her a necklace and giving it to her while singing happy birthday to her (her b-day is sunday but she's going to springfeild tomorrow so i wont see her) then if she tries to give it back i'll just say thats its from a ';friend'; and i'm going to hope that she thinks of me all weekend but in a romantic way. thats my plan





thanks for getting thisDamn my life sucks I got a girl problem can someone help me out.?
well wat should i say


firstly: u cant put everything at once on the girl give her a break


second: do d necklace thing


third: keep henging around her and let her see who u really are.


hope i helpedDamn my life sucks I got a girl problem can someone help me out.?
ok listen to me u trying tooo hard to get her.. that's what WE GIRLS hate the most!!! just be cool.. but when a girl tell u as a friend that's it nothing will change her mind i know why im telling you.. when we girls see that a boy do too much for us or show that he needs a girl we consider that guy a ';loser';... we girls think like this '; why he don't have a gf? :S maybe no one want him? and he trying to get with me HA! then i will be a loser 2?'; not telling u are a loser but heeey don't act like u want her soo bad just be cool and don't ever take everything as a jk cause we girls hate that.. we girls want a a serious man, mature, funny ( not meaning do jks all the time), sweet. sensitive, patient... just act cool..
Honestly,





you sound like you are not really confident in yourself. You want somebody to love you for who you are, not because you had to jump through hoops to try and win them.





I suggest you do the things for yourself that will make you feel comfortable in your own body first. Once you are happy with who you are you will attract more girls because of the confidence.





for the skin tag and mole, look up dermatend.





But seriously, just relax and be yourself around this girl. stop planning. Let it just happen.
okay,that's really sweet of you to buy her a necklace,but trying to buy her affection isn't going to work hun.


maybe later on after she has moved she will realize what a great guy she left behind.


but within that time try not to romance her up,it might just make her feel a little awkward.


do act the same around her though.


continue being a good friend.





good luck.


:)
Do the necklace thing, It's a great idea! But unfortunatly, you may have to accept that she only likes you as a friend. If you really do feel strongly about her, maybe you should tell her how much she means to you (if she's leaving in Feb anyway, what have you got to loose?).


Goodluck.