I'm in love with him. He is confusing me.?

So my co worker and I have been getting really close since last June.. I'm 20 and he is 26.

At first, I wasn't really attracted to him.. But we have been talking and over time I just fell for him.

Last august he asked me to be his GF and I said Id have to think about it. Because I didn't know his situation and he doesn't tell me anything about his personal life....

All we do really is text/make out/ flirt.. etc. But his personality is so amazing, and he is so funny and he's all that I'm looking for. I can't ever stop thinking about him, it drives me crazy.

There is just one issue: He is still technically married ;( And to our co worker.

I heard from his friend that they married because they did love each other, but then she started fooling around after a year or so.. Now she is hooking up with the busboy. Though they are technically married, and they do have one kid together, they are both ';single';. (which makes me feel like our relationship is alright)... The thing that really bugs me is that he NEVER mentioned his relationship issues with me.. Like, before he said he wanted me to be his girl, but the only reason why I said I'd have to think about it is because he never told me what the deal was!

That was a few months ago... Now, we still text occasionally, and we still kiss and make out, and flirt and stuff, but I feel like we've lost some of our closeness. We don't talk as much. I don't know whats going on. I know we are not together, but I feel so in love with him... And I do want us to be together forever.

How can that happen if he is married?? I think they are still married for his citizenship though.. Thats the reason they didn't get a divorce. .. Thats what somebody else told me.

It makes me crazy, I'm so confused. When I say I want to move on from him, Next time he comes up to me and talks, or whatever.. I forget everything. And we have to still be friends! We work together. I feel like I am in this rut. I really don't want to move on from him, because I feel I am in love with him. But I feel like I have to. Unless he divorces her. Which I don't think he will.



Anything on your mind, I really appreciate it. I have nobody to talk to about this.. Thank you!I'm in love with him. He is confusing me.?
if they live together..move on girl!!...seems like he just wants to fool around and you're too young to be playing games with this dude...