What does it mean when your own girlfriend is?

..is encouraging you to meet and go out with other girls?

In a nutshell: [my girlfriend is japanese, im latino, and we've been in a long distance relationship for 3 months now. well, we spent another 6 months in japan, and from those 6, 3 months we were separate because she had to move out of tokyo. that makes a total of 9 months for our relationship. we're around the 22-23 years old.]%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;---- if you wish, you can stop reading here :^)



There's a girl here that's been following me all the time, i know she wants something else. last time she invited me to stay one night at her apartment because her roomate was going to be a out of town and she was too scared to stay alone. Naturally, i didn't stay, because i love my gf and, besides thinking it was wrong, i really didin't felt like doing so.

Since i didn't do anything wrong and i don't like to hide things from her, i told her about that. i was expecting the typical woman reaction ';stay away from that bit(..)'; or something like that, but instead she was like ';oh, it's okay, you should have stayed with her!';. i mean, i don't want a possesive gf, who wants to tell his bf who not to hang out with and what to do, but i think some little jeleaously would be fine just to demostrate that she cares about me. she was not using sarcasm, she wasn't even mad. she was so relaxed saying all that stuff.

she was also telling me that it's okay to try new people and that the other girl was probably trying so hard for me, so i should give her an opportunity. she wants me to be adventurous and take more risks but life is only one.... what a hell?! i'm trying to be a nice boyfriend here, being faithful and letting her know how i was able to beat temptation because i love her and.... that's her answer?? i know that she's very open minded, but i never thought this much. in your opinion, is she serious about this relationship?? has anyone here been openly told by your gfs that you should have fun with other girls? is she going to regret it if i follow her advice?



i feel so sh(..) an unappreciated by her.What does it mean when your own girlfriend is?
Being in a long distant relationship is difficult, it may be that she either doesnt think of you as a bf but more as a fb... or maybe she wants you to be happy and she thinks you need things she cannot give you given the distance... or the dreaded she may be seeing someone else. I would just talk to her about it, its the easiest way, women are complicated. You never know maybe she was testing you? there are a variety of things, the best bet is to be honest and just ask.What does it mean when your own girlfriend is?
It's either a trap and if you do hook up with other girls she'll know what kind of guy you really are... or she really doesn't care about being faithful. If she is serious about letting you be with other people then she is probably doing the same. That is something you have to ask yourself if you'd be ok with.
ask her, like why she is saying that, should you let her do the same, and if she says yes then, it prob wont work, im sorry, just talk to her, idk her.