VERY COMPLICATED SITUATION....PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP?

My friend and i have always have a sort of friends with benefits relationship, (we are best friends but we kiss and stuff). But on Saturday night he text me and said, “what if i tell you to stop loving me and move on”. I got really upset, i asked him why he was saying this to me and he replied that his ex girlfriend was saying stuff to him, and that he does want to hurt me or get hurt himself. I thought that meant that he is going back to his ex girlfriend; i can’t take that because i love him much more than a friend and he feels the same about me. But yesterday, i got really upset again about what he said on Saturday. He told me that he loves me more than anything but we cannot start a relationship until he is free of his burden (ex-girlfriend) so he can love me properly. Because he feels that our relationship will not last if we start it now. He also said that he wants it to last and he doesn’t want me to be the girl he rebounds off. He also said that i mean the world to him and all he wants is for me to be happy. But on Sunday, i decided that we needed to talk (the day before we met up and i screamed at him, then started crying and went home early), he was busy and said that he was really sorry but he has to talk later. When he was finally free i text him:



';Listen, the thing is waiting for you to be over _______ requires loads of strength. But I’m happy that you told me how you feel about her. I keep pushing you away from me because I don’t know how to deal with this. I don’t want to push you away; I need you with me, to make this get better. I want to wait for you and obviously I still want you but it’s hard. I don’t know how long it is going to take. I want to wait. If you still want me. But I don’t know what you want anymore';.



He replied, ';your stupid text pissed me off';.



I was soooo upset and then got really really angry. Because i told him exactly how i felt about him, it was so hard to do but i then text him:



';Why are you acting this way? I thought you loved me but it doesn’t look that way, I thought you wanted me to be happy; so put me out of my misery and tell me what is one your mind. If my happiness doesn’t mean **** to you then I don’t know why I am waiting for you. Because now you are not saying anything means that you do not obviously love me anymore. And I have to move on. How many more times can I beg you to tell me how you feel? How much longer can I wait all day for your texts but they never come? How much longer can I wait for you to be over Saima when you won’t, because there is no reason for you to be over her? How much longer can I love you for when you don’t love me?';



He did not reply, this text was sent at 11pm last night.



What should i do next?



xxxVERY COMPLICATED SITUATION....PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP?
Its hard when the one you love doesn't listen to you, or text back.



If you meet up at school, or at work, or wherever you generally are forced to meet up, you should see how he acts around you and judge where you are from there?



if you're a bit more confident then you could try asking him where you stand over text or IM... maybe in person so he can't ignore you?