Why do I need/want to move out your probably wondering? It's very simple actually. There's no drama or anything. I am just simply not happy and it's been this way for a long while now so I don't expect things to change anytime... at all. So I just need to take control of my own life. The reason why I can't just sit my parents down and talk to them is because they won't care what I have to say. I know that for a fact, I have tried many times to calmly sit down and talk to them about many things in the past and all I get from them is criticism and yelling. This is just what is best for my current situation honestly.
I feel as though I have a pretty flawless plan as to how I am going to do this as well. What I am going to do is at night when both my parents are sleeping, my boyfriend is going to help me get all my stuff out of my room and put it all into his car. I have written a long letter to my parents that I will be leaving on the kitchen counter where they will easily see in the morning. In this letter, I will explain my reasoning behind moving out, who I am with, and that I will contact them so they know I am safe. I know it will hurt my parents but I feel like nothing else will get the point across. I also don't plan on cutting my family out of my life completely. What I am going to do is after a few days of my moving out, I will call my parents just to say I'm safe and no need to worry. And then eventually, after things have calmed down at a tolerable level, keep more in touch with them.
As for where I'll go, I have a place to stay and also a very good job already that actually pays a lot more than my parents have ever made but that's beside the point. I will also be attending school once I get everything together. I do want to succeed in life and I want to go far with all my dreams but I want to do it the way I feel is best for me, not what my parents want. This may sound like just a pathetic (or no so pathetic) attempt at rebellion. But that's not what I'm doing. I just need to start my life and I don't want to waste another second being unhappy here.
So if your still reading and aren't bored out of your mind yet, here is what my question is, finally... With being over the legal age and leaving a note, is there anyway that my parents can get to me or find out where I am somehow? Like by social security number? Or something like that?
Note that I will not be taking the car they bought for me, or my cell phone (I'll be getting a new phone under a new account, new number and everything obviously), I don't use any credit cards of theirs, and they do not know where the person who I'll be with lives at. And also I'll be married (please don't lecture me about this either) so my last name will be different, which will make it almost impossible for them to access any information about me or find me right? Please let me know if you see any flaws in this plan. Any at all, even if you are not 100% positive. I just need to make sure that there is no way that they can find me in anyway.
Thank you if you actually took the time to read all this. Oh, and please do not preach to me about how I should not go through with doing this. Exercise your fingers somewhere else please, it would just be a waste of both of our time.Leaving my parents house at 19, important question?
Stop talking about it and leave, wait don't leave. Get the Fck Out!
You aint gone yet? Hit the bricks Chick!Leaving my parents house at 19, important question?
Again you really need to learn how to get to the point. Okay I read your entire diatribe. It is possible but highly unlikely they will be able to find you. It would most likely require a private investigator. If they know the guy you are getting married to they would likely look for you by that name as well.
I should think you have little to worry about unless you are seen at your new home by someone who knows you and will tell your parents, or if they follow you from work or something like that. They could also hire a private investigator to follow you. But I doubt they would have the resources to get to you through your SS#.
You're an idiot and immature on a variety of levels. but you said you wanted flaws, so here's a couple:
you'll be packing all night to get your stuff out of your parent's home. Which makes noise and takes time. unless you can stick all your stuff in one or at most two bags, I think you might wake someone up. Furthermore, how are you going to take it out of your parent's home? through a window, down stairs, tip toeing through the front door? lets not forget the car, They make noise and have lights. Are you going to have him park his car down the street with the lights off? or was he suppose to stroll into the drive way?
ba ha ha you're parents will celebrate the fact that you're gone and you're no longer a major expense for them. And you thought they'd miss you or worry about you!
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