Your opinion is needed and will be greatly appreciated?

How important do you think it is for you and your partner to go to bed together, chat about your day and kiss each other good night? Or is it ok to go to bed at different times and not have those couple minutes to each other?

My bf and I don't see each other all day but we live together. We both work and then we take turns taking my son to bball practice and then go workout....He comes home later than me and by that time I'm ready to go to bed since I wake up earlier than him. He eats, watches tv, and does other stuff and hours later goes to bed...We don't kiss each other good night, hardly have sex anymore and sometimes I had a rough day and just want to be in bed and talk to him but he's not there.



How much freedom and space should you give each other?

I pretty much gave up my social life when I got with him. To avoid problems, yes I still keep in touch with friends but hardly ever see them. I found out he cheated a couple of months ago and decided to take him back but sometimes when he goes out, I can't help but wonder. I don't mind him going with his friends, but I mean sometimes I get mad cause he is hardly ever home. He tells me I trip a lot and act like his mom, that we aren't even married. I get this but we live together and even though it's not in paper, I mean shouldn't he have the respect to say ok he decided to move in with me and its not like before, he is not single. I do everything a wife does, cook, clean, work, wash the clothes, pay bills and half the rent etc....I don't know. What is normal and what is taking advantage? Tell me about your relationships and agreements?Your opinion is needed and will be greatly appreciated?
Well I dont see why he would or should respect you since you are giving him everything for free...youlet him move in, he gets free sex, and u do all the stuff like a married couple WITHOUT the responsibility..he likes this cause he is not tied down but gets all the benefits...Move out is your only option.Your opinion is needed and will be greatly appreciated?
if he is keeping you from your friends he has control issues - this will get worse believe me - get out now and find someone that is more stable and less controlling - GET OUT NOW
Your boyfriend is exactly that. An irresponsible boy who is just a friend who uses you for his own convenience. You do not have a REAL relationship because he is not mature enough and does not care enough to have one with you.



The problem is that you are not strong enough to stand up to him and he knows this. You inadvertently told him it's Ok to cheat when you took him back the last time. There were no REAL consequences for cheating. he has all the freedom he wants. He gets to party with his friends and he ignore you.



Don't ask him to move out. You need to throw him out. Call the police if he refuses to leave. You don't have to put up with him bullying you any more.



You will not be losing much by dumping his dumb @$$ and finding a man who will love you, respect you and cherish you