Please read and give an opinion? x?

Im not sure about him no more.

One minute he'll be really nice to me, friendly, playful, nice, caring then the next minute he'll be like ';shup, shhhh'; to anything i say and ';who asked your opinion?'; and im like right..

Our relationship is kinda like that song

Hot 'n cold

';You, change your mind, like a girl changes clothes...

You always think, always speak critically

I should know that your no good for meeeeee...

Your hot and your cold, your yes then your no,

your up then your down

we fight we make up ...';

There the extracts of the song i think are like us.

When he is really nice i really like him then when he goes strange he puts me off him a bit, but then I grow to like him again.

Im a very flirty person so i flirt with him alot he when he's in his nice mood he'll flirt back. When we have to sit next to each other in class he lean on the table and spread his elbows out so he bashes with me, or he'll turn his chair to face me and put his feet on my chair or his knee will bash against my leg, but once i dropped my pen reached down to get it and accerdently touched his leg, he said ';Why you touching me for you pedo'; he said that as a joke but why does he always speak so criticly to me sometimes?

Somes lessons we get on really well and it always seems to be the same ones and the same lessons we clash..

When our teacher calls us round to look what they're doing or something when there giving us an example on how to do something like in Graphics, Food Art, He'll try to stand next to me all the time then he'll move somewhere else opposite me then he'll move back get closer then go away again.. Why doesnt he just stay in one place.. ?!



His mate asked me if i fancy him over e-mail i hav'nt replyed yet, im not sure wether to say either..

';Why?';

';No And why?';

Or to say i do?

But if i say i do they might laugh and stuff..





What do you think ?!

Becca xPlease read and give an opinion? x?
7 is a difficult agePlease read and give an opinion? x?
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early relationships are sometime like this, some people are conflicting in what they say and what they do. you must be careful, i see alot of people fall hopelessly in love with someone who said they love but act unpredictable and end up forcing the relationship to be their way.
Sounds to me you know what you want to say...

You do fancy him.



Why should they laugh at you? Just be mature about it and it won't phase you :) .



If you like someone why not just say it, the worst they will do is nothing at all.
blah blah blah blah - get a life !!!!
Becca,

Go to the website for bi-polar disorder. Think about his ';hot-and-cold';, up and down mood swings. This guy has a real problem and you can do so much better.

Work on you own sense of self, establish and maintain healthy boundaries, only let in the good and push out the bad relationships.

Some books I recommend to my clients:

Don't Let Jerks Get the Best of You

He's Just Not That Into You

Boundaries: When to Say Yes; When to Say No

The Gift of Fear



Invest in your own emotional and mental well-being. Life's too short to enmesh yourself in the lives of people with long-term mental/emotional issues, unless you are getting paid as a psychiatric nurse or doctor.
hmm.. sounds like this boy really likes playing with your head. as for him being critical and stuff, I personally do not like that therefore, I'd call him on it or either simply shut him off from any of my flirting. you deserve someone who treats you like a princess. if they are critical and treat you this way now at times, who's to say they'll ever change - because they probably won't.



Are you good friends with your mate's friend?

I'd personally say that there are aspects in which you do like, but there are also many aspects in which you don't. Leave the rest up to them to interpret.



Hope I helped, and best of luck!
Well!



You seem like your in a pickle :D



As you have said, you really like this guy so love wins everything else.

You need to speak to him about this and then you ca see where it goes from there.

I think that you need to just discous this with him just to see if he still likes you the way that you like him. Your relationship is a bit like Katie and Peter Andre. They always argue all the time, then they kiss and make up and go for a shag!

Obviously I arnt saying that you shag him but just showing you an exaple.

My only advise for the first part of the question is to just speak to him.



For the next partI think that you should say to his mate -

Why did you come out with that?

Then at the end of that just say something funny like -

You Spanner!



Then find out his reation to that and take it from there!



I really do hope that my advise helped!



From Abbii

xxx
Just reply with ';why?'; That way, you don't have to make a decision just yet of whether or not you like him.



And as for his 'meanness', when he's being 'mean', he probably doesn't mean it in a bad way, probably just his idea of being ';funny'; lol
Think it,s rot by jove, that,s what i think !!!!