Is this a good letter to give to my bf~?

ok i just got in a relationship with this guy who just moved down here from NY and im kinda feeling that we shouldnt be together but im not sure so tell me is this a good letter to give to him!



';hey was up! um i got alot of stuff on my mind and your one of them. im kinda feeling that your we shouldn鈥檛 be together because I kno you got a whole lot of stuff on yo mind too! Um im kinda thinking that ppl forced you to like me or something! I actually think we rushed things cause we barley kno each other! We barley talk! So im not saying lets break-up but im saying how do you feel about this you kno, cause I feel like we rushed things! Whats on yo mind?';



we live in the same neighborhood and we go to the same high school! and i feel like my friends forced us together but i dont think he likes me that much!Is this a good letter to give to my bf~?
sounds fine! same thing happened to me. just say 'lets be friends' since u guys dont talk/dont kno eachotehr. end the awkwardness lolIs this a good letter to give to my bf~?
ummmmmmmmmm why does it have to be a letter? why cant you just tell him face 2 face. its way more effective
Yeah, I guess..
It's up to you
yeah that sounds good
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no its not a good letter. jsut talk over the phone
I think it would be better if you wrote it in English. That way he's more likely to understand it.
thats great. its not too harsh and your asking for HIS opinion
If you like the guy, then maybe its better to send him something like



You seem kinda distracted lately.

I like you, and want to be there for you.

So, whenever you need someone to talk to

call me, and we'll figure everythign out together

Im here if you need me
sounds okay to me
Yeah, that's good. Just ask him how he feels about your relationship and ask him if it would be alright if you two take things a little slower to see if your better off as friends or lovers =D
I wouldn't write that !Not like you did here. Just say it to him . Face to face is always better.
if you two were rushed into the relationship and you don't truly care for each other...then whats the point? u cant spend ur life making others happy...u deserve someone that you can talk to...have fun wit....and that YOU want to be wit....not someone that u were forced to be wit
That sounds good. Just let him know how you feel and everything should turn out all right.
yes and no.I am from old school get your education then a relationship.
yes quite ok.
I think that is a pretty good letter!=) You might also want to meet with him after you give him this letter. You should explain why you guys aren't great together and let him down gently. Just be truthful and realistic.
Yeah. It really expresses how you feel and that's nice. He'll totally understand what your talking about. Great Letter! :]
no it is a DUMB letter



you should just TALK with your bf about this
I would probably take that badly. It starts with I have you on my mind then says we should break up. That would hurt. Plus, no offense, but you might want to put that through spell check. Barley is a type of grain and know has a w. He will probably just break up with you if you give him this.
NO PLEASE DON'T SEND THAT LETTER REWRITE IT OR TRY TALKING TO HIM IN PERSON
I think that your letter is pretty bad.

It should say simply this..We need to talk.

Please meet me after school.



The rest of the stuff should be done face to face
Well, first off, if it's possible to talk to him face-to-face, do that.



But if it's not, that's a nice letter. I'd like to receive one like that in a situation like this....



The only thing I suggest revising on your letter is the ';um's, kinda's, etc. Be confident with what you say and say what you mean and it will hopefully all work out for you!
Gurlie tlk to him ask him ????? b4 you brek this off you dont seem like oyu want to do this
umm fix the spelling and i would redo it like this:



';Hey (insert name), whats up? i was doing some thinking about us lately and I'm kind of feeling that maybe we should take a breather and think about what we're doing for a moment. I know that you've got a lot of stuff on your mind too, but just hold the thought and keep reading. I actually think we rushed things and a part of me can't help but wonder if the reason why you liked me in the first place was because of what other people said and thought about you, about us. We barely know each other, and we barely talk. (insert name) I'm not saying let's break up but I'm asking you to think about this too.



Love (or sincerely w.e.)

(insert your name)
Wouldnt send the letter.......wouldnt call him either....if you arent comfortable then just dont see him as much, or at all. If you like him, and he is still seeing you, then leave it alone. If he doesnt want to see you, believe me, he wont. People cant force other people to like you.
no- this is a terrible letter to give him. it is way 2 harsh- and will hurt him a lot especially if he really did like you and your saying people forced him 2. I've learned from experience guys can get very offended by that. also, a letter is permanent proof of how you felt. doing it over the phone would be much better- that way there is no way that letter could show up to cause more pain latter
Yours is fine, it kinda sounds too happy though but i changed it a little.



';Hey, can I talk to you for awhile...

Ive been thinking for awhile and I just want to tell you that I feel like we shouldnt be together for now, Im saying this because I think our friends wanted us to be together. And I think we need to take things slow because I feel like we have rushed things up too fast and I dont feel like I have known the real you yet, Iam not saying that we should break-up but I want to know how you feel about this?';



TakeCare
If you are giving him this letter, I would advise that you proofread it and then make a final copy. You got to many um's in there. I do honestly believe that just being straight forward with him would be better. It is more effective and shows true emotions with facial emotions. I think this letter would cause a breakup between you two. You need to get to know him and make sure communication is there because it is a key factor that makes a relationship work. I am not saying this letter is bad, but you will understand that communication through talking is more effective in life the older you get. Good luck with everything.