Whats the easiest way to get over your ex-gf ?

ok, I'm really not doin so well atm n i think i need help..Im 19 male from Egypt.. met this girl online whos from England.. n as strange it would sound knowin that weve met online... i fell in love with her.. really bad.. she said she loved me too.. we stayed togetha for almost a year... every single day we get online talk on mic n cam from 8 pm till 4 am.. we had some downs.. but we always managed to get ova them... we started on in feb ... it was ok till jaunuary next year.. i started to feel like theres somethin goin on between her n some one called Tim .. whos obvio in england.. one month later she told me that itll be the best for us to break up.. weve always had like them fights bout were fed up cos we cant see each others n stuff but.. we always managed

to get back together.. cos i was really in love with her n i thought she really loved me too.. nyway...i gave her one week like so she could change her mind.. but i found her sayin that the best way to get over each other was to date other ppl.. to be fair.. there was this girl in me town that i liked.. but not liked her enough to .. you knw.. get with her n stuff.. especially i was in love with me gf.. that girl from me town was called mona..mona have liked me since forever.. n once i honestly was a lil high n made out with her.. n almost had sex with her too.. but i just dint realise what i was doin until like she started takin off her clothes i just got angry n told her never to talk to me again..even shes been me friend for ages.. i dint know hw to tell me gf bout it.. i was goin to i swear to god but she gave the addy of her friend to me so id check somethin out for her..so i added him .. between the lines he said.. you sure your gfs tellin you everythin ? i was like what you mean.. he said ask her.. i did she went like ok.. i need to tell you somethin .. n went on bout how when we met she wasn really single she was with this dude from morocco ..yer online too %26gt;.%26gt; ... n she had to choose between us lately n shes chosen me.. that was round april..2 months shes been lyin to me n him.. nyway i got angry n told her bout what happened between me n mona.. took us time but we forgave each others n got over it..in august.. we started thinkin bout me movin to england or she movin to egypt.. we both tried out our best but.. we couldn do... in january i found a way for me to move to england.. but then i wont be able to come back to egypt.. cos if i do ill go to jail for runnin away from joinin the military which is clum.. i dont know the word.. but like every male in egypt has to serve the army for one year so he could leave egypt for whatever reason... one year was really too much for me n her to handle.. so i took the risk of leavin egypt for good just to be with her... n like started gettin me documents ready to immegrate..it wasn an easy thing to do.. but it was march n i was still in egypt.. while she got with tim.. fell in love with him..

.n i just couldn get over her at all... kept beggin her to get back to me.. till it was too much for her to handle.. i thought she would change her mind if she meets me in person.. i told her bout me movin to england really soon.. she said she wouldn meet me if i do move to england n stuff... even shed call the cops if i get nywhere near her.. i couldn care less bout that i told her i was goin... i got a ticket to be there on march 27th.. i told her round 15th march.. but found her tellin me that shes goin over to sleep over at his place on 30th march...i begged her to wait a lil bit n give me time but she wouldnt ..she was virgin btw.. well till march 30 this year.. i went over to england .. went over to the place she used to work at.. n i saw her.. god how beautiful she was.. but that was after her goin over to tims place.. everythin was over.. i said ill turn on a new leaf n start over... but i could never forget her or even not to think bout her for one single day... everytime ive slept with someone i wake up in the mornin hoipin the girl next me to be her.. but it never was.. obvio... its been over months now since ive moved to england.. i cant stop thinkin bout her...n i get so angry when i think bout tim touchin her.. i dont know what to do.. but im this close to end me life.. so please.. whoever read this... just tell me what you think the best for me to do...

dont say go out with other girls.. cos it wont work.. ive gone out with doezens of girls.. slept with over 26 girls in 4 months .. n its not workn



ive never gone over n talked to her.. every once in a while i just go n watch her workin at that cafe... i dont wanna talk to her cos i know she wouldn like it.. since she neva told nyone bout me n her..



please, please nyone... helpWhats the easiest way to get over your ex-gf ?
aww, I'm sorry things had been tough.



I think the best thing to do is try to avoid seeing her, it's never easy to get over someone if you keep seeing them around places, so stop going to the cafe, everytime you see her you're just torturing yourself thinking about what might have been. I know other people have said move away but that's not so easy if you have a job as getting another one would be very difficult especially at the moment, but maybe if you don't then moving might help a change of scenery would give you a chance to think and being further away from you'd be less tempted to go to see her at the cafe.



Stop sleeping with other girls, you're just upsetting yourself more, take some time for yourself sort your own head out and don't feel that you need to rush into other relationships wait until you are better and you feel completely ready.



How about getting a new hobby, you could take up a sport or do some volunteer work, this will give you something to help distract you from her when you are thinking about your hobby you can't be thinking about her, it may also give you an opportunity to meet new people and make new friends you just moved to a new country to be with her and now that she didn't work out you don't really know anyone so you probably feel a bit alone maybe meeting new people to hang out with will help distract you.



Hope this has helped some :)





Oh and that word you wanted to describe that you had to serve a year in the military is compulsory :)Whats the easiest way to get over your ex-gf ?
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Hello, well we float the same boat me dear, you have just answered my question to)



I cannot say much about long distance r'ship, so i cannot say much, i know how much it can hurt when you cant speak to or see the one persone you love so much. But i think you should stop going around with these girls as they wont do you any good, i have not dated a single guy or liked a guy since me and my guy broke up, i feel like i could do not do that, if she comes back to you dude you know she loves you, but then again your only 19 you will, you will find better girls in life, possible mona :)



goodluck sweets ;)
I would advice you to be patient with yourself cuz its gon take some tym before you get over her, remember the sole reason y you're in england is because you wanted to c her. So the 1 thing i would advice you to do is to move elsewhere if you can, everytime you think that you came there in order to c her its gon keep eating you inside. But most of all tym can fight our battles so try to do some things that dont require you to be around women for a while, (you wont die). Try and accept that she is gone and maybe that will help.
ouch thats harsh.. just try not to think about her is all i can say sorry..but good luck =) i think youll get over her soon
Hey man im really sorry about the **** she put you through that sucks big time you stuck your neck on the line and she shut you down in a heartbeat, i understand that you cant get over her and its been months for you which i can sympathize with because you guys talked for so long and got into you moving to her and being with her which is great but the fact that now you find out she was juggling you and some other guy for two months and then got together with this tim guy even after you pleaded with her to give you a chance is ****** up to say the least im a virgin so i have no idea if sleepin with other women can help you at all altough i would think mayb not if you dont have as strong feelings for them as yu did her, i think that you just need some closure with her if you can just catch her after work or somethin and just ask to talk real quick and youll leave her alone afterwards then just ask her why she did it how she felt about you then and how she feels about you now and how she feels bout this tim prick, hopefully youll understand a little better how things went and why then you can hopefully at the least get over her a little bit. and my last bit of advice dont end your life man you seem like a young great guy who just got let down as big as it gets ending your life wont bring any good to the world.