Thursday, October 28, 2010

Girls I really need advice what is going on in your minds?

Nothing compares to the pain when a girl wants to date me, we go on a date, I call her and then she never picks up or returns my call. Why? Both times I really cared for a girl, we go on the date the girl tells me about how busy she is then never talks with me again. I make her laugh, I don't call her a million times, I am friendly with her friends during class(I stopped talking with them after this happened so I wouldn't bother them), I don't try to move to fast, and I do everything the same as every other guy. People tell me I am attractive, so its not that (I even have a six pack). I play sports, I play the guitar (and write my own songs), I am smart (am school to become a doctor), I am not arrogant, and I make people laugh. Every girl rejects me. Only time girls do stuff with me is at club, but I want a girl want to be my girlfriend, not just have one night stands (I don't though, even though the girl did). I see girls that love their guys. What about them turns you on?Girls I really need advice what is going on in your minds?
It;s because she doesn't like you and is to much of a ***** to let you know by talking to you. She is worried you'll think she's mean if she tells you. So she thinks it's nicer by ignoring you. Plus they don't wanna waste their time.Girls I really need advice what is going on in your minds?
ok yep u definitely have a problemo
cute boys that are nice but dont talk to much
I personally like sweet, down-to-earth guys who make me laugh, from what you said it sounds like you maybe its that your meeting the wrong kinds of girls who are into the one-night stands
Well mayby they do all that cuz the may think u are .... UGLY ! Concider a makeover or ask them why , ( if u get the chance ) .
you seem like a very nice guy who is just choosing the wrong girls. if any girl would do that to you, they are not worth getting to know anyways!! they sound mean and shallow to not talk to you after a date. try getting to know girls who are sincerely nice and friendly.





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Maybe these girls want to be just your friends. If you want a girlfriend, you need to somehow let the girl know you want to be more than friends.
Im sorry about your lost relationships but it's life. Many girl's don't like to get sophicated in a realationship and many girl's just like expand their horizons and many many girl's don't wany to get stuck b/c they may get heart broken and girl's are real easy to fall in love well good luck
Well all the things you listed of course.


If you're shy, it never helps. BELIEVE ME.


Plus, girls probably think you are a player.


And also, if you've had one night stands, you may have a reputation. Not good.


Try working on those things, possibly?


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I hope I help.
hi!
Maybe you just haven't found the right girl. Whatever is meant to be will be, so don't rush things or worry. You sound perfect, it's their loss, not yours.
Money.





Girls only react to money.





Wait until you are a doctor. You will get all the stuff you can stand.





Good Luck
When people don't call you back, it means they're not interested but are unable to be direct. So they were no good for you anyway; who wants a bad communicator?


Do activities where you'll meet quality girls (not at a club). What do you like to do? For example, if you like animals, you could volunteer at an animal shelter. If you like photography, join a photography club. check out something like meetup.com, which has activity groups for your area. If you go to church, go to their youth or singles club. From doing things you like, you'll find a girl you like. Good luck!
perhaps try dating nicer girls


it seems like the girls u have gone out w/ have all been terribly messed up


i mean where do u even find them


there seems to be nothing wrong with you


and i know it seems hard to believe that it is just them and not u because they have all been the same but it is indeed possible
Well I think they don't want to be the ones to look desperate by calling you back so fast, so they decide to let you do all the work. They're the type that want their guys to fight for them by being the ones to go out of their safety box, and making these huge gesters to show just how much you're willing to commit to them. They're playing hard 2 get %26amp; It's either they've watched too many chick flix, or they've just been hurt too many times, and want to be sure that they're ready when they settle down with someone new. These are definitely the girls that you're gonna have your work cut out with.....if you're willing, of course.
Apparently you are going for the wrong type of girls. You sound very nice, and these girls don't! if they can't even tell you that they don'tlike you, they don't deserve your love.


Someday i guarantee you that you will find the right girl for you. Until then, don't ask what turns girls on on internet sights - it's your life, no one knows anything about you, and someday someone will like you for you. Just be yourself!





(p.s. i like funny, sweet, moderately paced, at least pretty good looking guys.)





Good luck.
Sometimes its not you!!! Its just the fact that those girls A) either arent interested or B) Their just not the one for you!!! Keep being who you are dont change a thing you might not get a girlfriend right away but eventually their will be a girl who really deeply falls for you just the way you are and all your flaws are going to be what attracts her even more!!! Dont get discouraged because just a few girls dont call back. Keep talking to them. But heres another tip. Dont worry so much about doing things just the way other guys do them. It kind of sounds like you try to hard. Just let it flow and if you want to talk to her friends then do it. maybe shell get jealous that your talking to them and not her.Dont worry so much about her. You have fun too and if its over well then just forget her cause it wasnt meant to be and the factthat you drop her so fast might make her get insecure and try talking to you again.
i want to try to answer this .it may be because they are just embarased because i do get really embarassed infront of guys i like so technically that may be it.... umm you said it happened twice...thats how no calls....oh never mind its difficult to explain.... damn it i never cuss ......... um bye.
They were trying to play hard to get is my guess, not all girls are crazy, or maybe itw was just the girls you were dating. I know how weird this sounds but go to cosmopolitan.com its a girls magazine that will give you a different perspective on things for your own benefit.
I don't think that you have a problem you just haven't met the right girl for you yet. When you meet a girl that is willing to reciprocate your feelings you will feel allot better about yourself. Maybe you are showing a lack of self esteem that is wearing on your dates. If a female feels that you aren't happy with yourself then she will show no interest. Work on your self esteem first, then move on to your approach with the girls. You can't come on too strong or too weak, we are women and we don't even know what we want half of the time and the whole dating thing is just as confusing for us. We just show it differently. I hope I have helped. Peace and love to everyone!
lol. well base on what i have read, the girl must think that you're too good for her and that she has low self-esteem or simply she has someone else and just accepts u (b/c she doesn't want to hurt ur feelings) but avoids u later. Second, girls love texting when they are in love. Third, praise her infront of her friends and tell ur guy friends ';She's the one'; or ';That's her'; whenever she's within earshot. Fourth, be romantic, text her a love quote in the morning, give her a bouque of roses in the afternoon, take walks on the beach, eat expensive chocolates with her at night and cuddle with her, whisper in he ear and tell her that you love her. [Note: do simple things not everything i tell you, do the things that only cost love not money.] Fifth, play on ur guitar, string some chords, write true heart felt lyrics that u feel whenever u are with the person u love. Lastly, i hope this helps u from all the romance movies and books i've read. lol. well, some girls react to money but when u are a doctor, disguise urself and see how girls react around you.
Hey, im a 17 year old girl and i want to help you out. I have a boyfriend, and there are lots of things about my boyfriend that turns me on. But basically its all the same things you said you do like make girls laugh and stuff. Do you think that maybe you are even at all being too sexual or too fast? What about the places you bring her, do you go to somewhere popular or to a place maybe she doesnt like? For me, i like it when my bf and i sit at my/his place on a Saturday night and watch movies while snuggling on the couch. ALL girls like to snuggle and kiss and to be loved lol. UMM... If your like 18 or older, trying bringing her to a restraunt or to a bar if thats the type person you and her are. You should both have alot in common before getting serious. You should complement little things that us girls work hard on like nails, hair, makeup, cloths, perfume(smell) ect. Lastly, dont act too eager to call her, or to see her again. Act like you want to and it would be looked forward to by you, but dont be TOO excited or else you look imature or... i dont know, we just dont like that lol. Good luck!
I don't know how old you are but young girls don't know how to appreciate a good guy. They are still trying to find themselves. But hang in there Sweetness, don't change who you are!
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